"Those balls of yours look so tender and full…

I could be so very nice to them… helping you work them up til bursting…

Or I could just tease them viciously… tormenting them until you beg for release - Tease and Denial

(By: Domina Amanda) I think the little animated clip I use with my signature makes it obvious that I enjoy femdom ballbusting. A good solid groinkick is like an instant reality check to any mouthy male… one that puts him in his proper place immediately - on the floor, at my feet. With this in mind, I decided to write a guided masturbation assignment with a ballbusting theme, mixed with some harsh tease and denial. Now of course, there isn't going to be any groin kick fun going on (though I did just get a good idea for a future masturbatrix assignment ~grinz~) - this is a more mild form of self imposed ballbusting masochism, done under my domination… but there will be plenty enough "attention" down there to enjoy.
 
To read this assignment - Click - Guided Masturbation - "You men are so helpless… can't even jerk yourself off without the help of a woman. Well, you want to beg my help… then this is going to be the kind of tease and denial that I really enjoy."
 
Just another example of how female domination is such a necessity in the life of any man. In this case we have a hapless male who's been fumbling around with his hard cock for years… his masturbation never leading to anything more than a half-assed orgasm as a result of his ineptitude. Sound familiar? It should, I was talking about you. I've decided to take matters in my own hands, for much like everything else in life, men just make a mess until a woman comes to fix the problem. But this bit of tease and denial is going to cost you… and the price is a dose of self inflicted ballbusting.
 
At the end of this guided masturbation assignment, you'll find a tease and denial audio that will tell you how to finish off the ballbusting play I've enjoyed so much ~laughs~. I doubt I will let you cum… I just wanted to abuse your balls a bit, and since I'm too far away to administer a good groinkick, this taste of painfully accented tease and denial will just have to do nicely.

Domina Amanda 
Groinkick Ballbusting Phone Sex - 1-800-356-6169
 

"So you think any woman who would get off on a good groin kick must be sick?

Well, let me make a suggestion to you… one of the utmost kindness…

If ever you think the woman you are talking to happens to enjoy that fetish…

Don't ever tell her your opinion when you are standing in front of her - Groinkick Ballbusting"

"What does CFNM mean? On the surface, it stands for - clothed female, naked male…
The man stripped naked before the dominant woman in a form of sexual objectification.
From there, female domination can easily turn from subjugation to male humiliation, and more…
The woman as sexual exploiter, with her dress reflecting feminine beauty and superiority - CFNM Femdom

(By: Domina Amanda) When it comes to guided masturbation play during CFNM femdom CBT, I usually take a very hands on approach to tease and denial. I wrote this assignment with that in mind… an example of how focused I am when it comes to dominating a male slave who is naked and needy in front of me. When the opportunity permits I like to be very up close and personal for my tease and denial play… showing my toy just how total female domination can be… especially when the leather clad dominatrix in control of that CFNM femdom CBT session is me.
 
To read this assignment - Click - Guided Masturbation - "Reaching down and taking your balls in my fist… commanding you to stroke faster as my fingers begin to close and pull… crushing your sack in an ever tightening embrace."
 
I know you won't be able to take your eyes off of what I'm wearing… men love my taste in clothes, but they especially love me in leather… from boots and gloves, corsets and bustiers, to garters, skirts, and dresses. A vision of CFNM dominatrix perfection that is an irresistible form of tease and denial all by itself. The only problem - something as beautiful as me is simply too damn hot for them… which means my riding crop is usually needed to snap them back to attention. And for those who are completely overwhelmed by my appearance, taking the CBT up a level or two usually clears their heads fast.
 
Just like the rest of my guided masturbation assignments, this one ends with a tease and denial audio that will give you my final commands. Will I let you cum… or will I just laugh and leave you begging for release? It’s my choice, and you will obey. Hell, I was only in this for the CFNM femdom CBT ~laughs~, that's my kind of fun… your orgasm is only an afterthought. Female domination means that I am the one in charge and you are only here for me to use as I please.

Domina Amanda 
Tease and Denial Phone Sex - 1-800-356-6169
 

"What does CBT mean? In simple terms it's cock and ball torture…
A general expression referring to sexual acts that involve the abuse of the male genitalia.
This abuse can be anything from sadistically savage and painful in form…
To prolonged stimulation that shifts from tease to torture due to length of attention.
But for all it's apparent shocking content, femdom CBT, to the masochist,
Is sexual abuse that’s actually incredibly pleasurable and desirable - Tease and Denial"

"The words male sex slave seem to confuse many men…

They think they're going to be the sexual toy of a female dominant, used often and well.

 No… it means you get used or passed around as I choose, if at all…

You are a slave, you exist to serve me, in all ways… your cock means nothing - Orgasm Denial" 

I know you can't get enough of me, and I do so love to cock tease, so I've added another free erotic audio to the Cock Control Forum - "No Stroking That Tiny Pee Wee" - it's a tease and denial piece with emphasis on the denial, since it's for all of you chronic masturbators out there who have your priorities confused. You need to stop jerking that cock so much, and start begging for ways to make me happy. Otherwise, chastity and long term orgasm denial will be your certain fate, and that's only if I'm in a good mood… there are so many horribly fun femdom things I can do to you if the depth of your submission isn't to my standards.
 
Click - "Why should I let you cum… you already stroke too much as it is…"
 
Seriously… unless small penis humiliation is your thing, you better stop yanking that tiny pecker so much, or you'll break what little you have. The well is gonna run dry soon, and the pump is gonna snap right off ~laughs~. Looks like it's time for a dominatrix intervention here. Perhaps enforcement of long term orgasm denial with a nice chastity belt will save you. Or maybe regular doses of small penis humiliation will make you too embarassed to look at that ridiculous thing, let alone touch it. I will have to assess the situation when you're delivered to me for treatment. 
 
We're going to make a good little boy out of you, so you can start behaving the way you should - less cock and more service. You're going to stop being such a cum pig focused on your next orgasm, and start focusing on how badly you need to serve a beautiful woman like me… especially since I'm taking control of what used to be your penis, and you will not ever again use it without my say.
 
This orgasm denial erotic audio had to go in the private section of Cock Control Forum, since it's a bit vulgar in its choice of language and blunt approach ~laughs~. You will need a registered account to listen to it, but don't get all twisted over that - registration requires nothing more than a valid email address, no personal info will be asked.
 
Now, like I told you… no masturbating for you. You want to listen to erotic audio clips go right ahead and listen to all you want, but you leave that small penis of yours alone. If you want an orgasm you're going to have to prove yourself to me, so click this link - Domination Phone Sex - and we will talk more about what I expect of you and what you will and will not do with my cock. Yeah. I said mine… it's small but it's a start ~laughs~, you'll be doing far bigger and better things for me as my slave.
 
My entire fetish collection is listed here - Free Erotic Audio - there are many more pieces here dealing with female domination, chastity and long term orgasm denial, small penis humiliation… and that's just scratching the surface of all that is there.
 
Domina Amanda
Tease and Denial Phone Sex - 1-800-356-6169
 

"Even the most strict dominatrix can be a cock tease in her own way…

Small penis humiliation, femdom CBT, orgasm denial… all kinds of sadistic female domination…

Can be extremely seductive and sensual… simply because that is what women are…

And men are helpess before their power - Free Erotic Audio Clips"

"A sloppy appearance is never attractive… and in a male slave, it is absolutely intolerable…

We are going to make you fit to be seen by the most demanding dominatrix…

And until you are ready, that cock is off limits, and orgasm is out of the question - Tease and Denial"

Why are boys such dirty, smelly things? Is it because the words "pig" and "dog" really are that fitting, but in a more olfactory sense than just the commonly thought sexual one? Maybe so. Is it just another example of female superiority… this time demonstrated by a noxious assault on one's senses? It would appear to be. The male sex is such a damn burden on women… without us they would all be wallowing in the mud, cycling between impulses to eat, fornicate, and beat one another up ~laughs~.
 
With that in mind, I've posted another guided masturbation assignment, to the "May I Cum?" website… this one addressing the issue of male slovenliness and enforcing a term of orgasm denial until the offense is fully corrected. It's bath day piggies, time to be re-introduced to soap, hot water, and the wonderful cleaning properties of the two when they come together. There is no way I am going to let you play with that filthy cock of yours until you are all cleaned up nice… and I am definitely not going to allow you to spray your ball scum all over yourself when you already stink like you do. Maybe a little cock tease and denial play will teach your dirty mind to relate cleanliness to pleasure. You want an orgasm? You're going to scrub before you jerk. Now get in the tub.
 
Click - "Women don't wear perfume to smell nice… they wear it so they don't have to smell you." - Guided Masturbation"
 
By the looks of you, "clean" is going to take a long time to reach… and I have no doubt we're going to have to spend an extra long amount of time washing down between your legs. That cock is going to need a lot of attention before its clean enough for orgasm… and we are going to need some very warm water to help soak out the scum that's both inside and out.
 
For those of you who have never visited "May I Cum?" - this cock tease website presents a large collection of guided masturbation assignments written by some of the most beautiful and sensual women in female domination phone sex. These tease and denial assignments cover a wide variety of femdom themes - from the sexy cock tease and playful bondage, to long term orgasm denial, right down into the depths of extreme BDSM punishments.
 
There is an audio clip at the end of the assignment that will tell you just what I think of your cleaning job. Did you scrub enough of the stink off of yourself to deserve to cum? Or will your bath end in a cold orgasm denial shower? All of my guided masturbation lessons have an attached tease and denial audio clip that gives my final thoughts on your performance for that particular assignment. And when you are ready to speak to me directly - Domination Phone Sex - you may contact me for private session in female superiority and the proper exploitation of male sexuality.
 
Domina Amanda
Female Domination Phone Sex - 1-800-356-6169
 

"Clumsy boy… don't you know how to stroke your own cock the right way?

I know… you need a beautiful young woman to take control of that dick, and show you how.

A long femdom session of tease and denial will teach you the basics of orgasm control…

While also teaching you that your cock is no longer yours - Guided Masturbation"

"Let's see… what should I do with your cock today?

Should I tied it up and punish it in a nice femdom CBT session…

Perhaps drive you crazy with a long cock tease, making you edge for hours…

Or maybe I won't let you touch it all all… it does belong to me, after all - Orgasm Denial"

I know you just can't get enough of my guided masturbation assignments, so the lovely cock tease - Domina Amanda - has posted yet another on the "May I Cum?" website just for you. Click the link below and you'll be able to enjoy may latest tease creation, along with dozens of others that I've written in the past. "May I Cum?" is the best cock tease and denial portal on the web for all of you chronic strokers in need of new material to jerk to… and it's presented by the hottest group of dominatrix instructors you've ever had the honor to orgasm by. It's a no membership site so all the material is free - the best in female domination, from sensuous cock tease to hardcore femdom CBT and so much more.
 
Click - "If you want my permission to let you play with yourself, you're going to have to earn it - Guided Masturbation"
 
This one is a simple little game I have planned for you… one you had better hope you do good in, or you may be waiting a lot longer than you expected for the chance to jerk off. There is a degree of orgasm denial involved, and don't be a friggin' pussy about it… man-up and do what you're told, or I will double the time you have to wait, and you'll just ruin what's waiting for you at the end.
 
If you're a good little slave boy, and patiently follow my every command… I promise I have a nice little surprise waiting at the end of your term in orgasm denial. Who says female domination has to always be so terribly cruel to the men crawl before it? With real power comes the choice to be merciful… even if that choice is still going to be laced with a little bit of lovely feminine sadism ~laughs~. It's good to be the dominatrix! ~grinz~.
 
Just like all of my other guided masturbation assignments, this one has an audio clip ending that leaves you with my parting commands. Will I finish this orgasm denial lesson with the fulfillment you've been waiting for… or just cock tease you a little more, sending you to bed to wait even longer? You'll just have to follow my orders and see for yourself. After that, there are many other assignments waiting for you on "May I Cum?", but don't get too carried away with all that jerk material. Remember tease and denial means just that… it doesnt mean gorge yourself like a greedy stroke pig. I know female domination gets men mindlessly excited, but we can't have you breaking that tiny cock of your's now can we. Just in case that excitement gets the better of you, here is where you can find me - Domination Phone Sex - I expect you to call me before things get totally out of control… we both know you need the firm hand of a dominatrix to make you keep your hands off yourself. Otherwise you'd spend all day making a mess with that pee shooter.
 
Domina Amanda
Orgasm Denial Phone Sex - 1-800-356-6169
 
CBT means Cock and Ball Torture
 

"Come on… turn that webcam on for me…

I want to see you make all those funny faces as I tell you how to jerk your cock…

You know… those faces you make when you feel your balls about to explode…

I'm going to cock tease you to an orgasm that makes you pass out - Guided Masturbation"

"You look so much better naked…

no… I'm not talking about your body… I'm talking about submission…

The male slave shouldn't wear clothes in front of his female owner - CFNM Femdom"

For those of you who have never visited the "May I Cum?" website, here is your perfect chance because I have a new guided masturbation assignment waiting for you to stroke to there. Click the link below and you'll be taken to the best damn tease and denial fetish portal on the web, hosted by the hottest group of dominatrix instructors you've ever seen gathered together in one place. Hardcore femdom, sensual female domination… strict orgasm denial, soft cock tease… you name it, you'll find there - and there's no membership required… just click the link and enjoy your erection.
 
Click - "I want you to take off all of your clothes, and get down on your knees… - Guided Masturbation"
 
As that first line suggests, this is a CFNM Femdom session. I'm going to walk you step by step through how I want you to perform, and your thoughts will of course be entirely on what I am telling you to do… and what I look like - as if your mind isn't already obssessed with me ~grinz~. I'm dressed to cock tease in the most perfect outfit you've ever dreamed of… nothing but hot all the way down to my high heels. You're going to touch your entire body… feeling yourself up just the way you wish you could me… as if I'd ever let your grubby hands be so bold ~winks grinz~. This is tease and denial, boy… not sex, so don't forget your place.
 
Do exactly as I tell you, and when you feel that orgasm ready to erupt, you better obey my final command. If you don't, you better hope I never get my hands on you, because the next CFNM femdom session we have won't be a cock tease you happily stroke to… it will be you tied down, legs spread wide and my boots showing you the not so nice things they can do to your balls… understand? ~smiles~ Good boy.
 
Stroke regulars already know that every one of our guided masturbation assignments comes with an audio clip at the end that finishes the tease and denial session, deciding whether or not your hard cock work will be rewarded with the orgasm you desire, or if you'll just have to stop and suffer. And remember not to hurt yourself reading all the other assignments you'll find there… I know you boys get carried away when you are not under the strict control of a dominatrix to keep you in line… sometimes orgasm denial is for your own good - don't want you to break that little thing.
 
Domina Amanda
Tease and Denial Phone Sex - 1-800-356-6169
 
CFNM means Clothed Female, Naked Male
 

"I want to watch you stroke for me…

see you take all of your clothes off… lie down.. spread your legs wide…

tease and jerk your cock until you blow an orgasm all over yourself - Guided Masturbation"

"No, you're not going to rush this… start stroking nice and slow…

I'm going to play up a nasty, hot cock tease while you beg to jerk faster…

 You're going to do every single thing I tell you… and I'm going to love it…

Obey perfectly… and you will too - Tease and Denial" 

I have a new free erotic audio that I am sure you will enjoy, its been added to Cock Control Forum so get off your fat lazy butts and check it out - "Guided Masturbation, Tease and Denial" - and by the title it should be clear to you what this one is all about… the beginnings of a guided masturbation session where I take control of you and your cock so we can see just what kind of powerful orgasm we can jerk out of you.
 
Click - "You are going to masturbate for me… so take off your clothes and start stroking now."
 
Yup… time for some CFNM femdom mixed with my orgasm control play… I've made it clear in the past I expect my men to be naked and that's not going to change now. The faster you get your clothes off the faster we can get down to some nice, hot tease and denial business here, boy. So get that cock out and stop wasting time… we're going to be at this for hours but when I want to cock tease, I hate waiting. 
 
That's it… show me how much you love to stoke for me… keep your eyes on me alone, and keep jerking. I know you love this dress I'm wearing, it's so short and tight, and it keeps sliding up my beautiful long legs… I bet you love that even more ~grinz~ show me you do. I want to see that orgasm erupt from you as you call out my name. But you better do exactly as you're told, or our guided masturbation is going to quickly shift to an orgasm denial scene and your balls are going to be sore for a week. 
 
I had to put this erotic audio in the private section of the Cock Control forum, because it gets down and dirty right away, and that's too much for public exposure. You'll need a registered account to access - if you don't have one its no big deal just click the link and look for "register" on that page. You don't need anything more than a valid email address, no private info need be given. I have a couple dozen other CFNM femdom clips currently up on the boards, and more to come in time. But why listen to recordings when you can have a strict, sexy tease and denial session with the real thing - Domination Phone Sex.
 
My entire collection is listed here - Free Erotic Audio - compiled in one place with descriptions of what to expect in each clip.
 

Looking for long audio sex stories and erotic tease clips?
Visit 'Mistress Always Wins' at - Erotic Audio
The Internet's Premier Collection of Femdom Recordings.
 

Domina Amanda
Orgasm Denial Phone Sex - 1-800-356-6169
 
CFNM - means Clothed Female, Naked Male.
 

"The Mistress of Cock Control are experts in cock tease and orgasm control…

Strict, cruel CFNM femdom sessions to soft, sensual domination…

 A huge library of of the hottest sexual recordings, waiting for you - Free Erotic Audio Clips"

"What made you think I was here to fulfill your needs?

Oh, no ~laughs~… your needs mean nothing to me… you're here to fulfill my wants…

and right now I want to see how sore those balls can get - Orgasm Denial"

Continuing from Thoughts on Tease and Denial
 
Orgasm denial, as mentioned before, is quite similar to tease and denial in basic form, excepting that, as the name and emphasis suggests, its tone can be more harsh and its conclusion even more certain (unless the subject doesn't know what's in store for him), and it can also be a much longer termed condition. It's usually sought by those who desire this conclusion, wanting and enjoying the resulting sexual frustration and feelings of submission / masochism that occur. This causes the tease to usually have a more cruel undertone to it, not just when its actively harsh and nasty, but even when its outwardly soft and sensual.
 
As a form of sexual play, orgasm denial is often carried out over numerous sessions (or as a semi-constant state), each building on top of the other in a sort of taunting, teasing chastity that can impose a brutally harsh form of sexual frustration on the submissive.
 
Chastity routines and devices are sometimes employed in compliment to long term orgasm denial, completely removing the possibility of direct genital stimulation. From there the dominant woman can choose to refrain from any form of tease at all, taking denial to an absolute form in that the sexuality of the submissive is denied entirely… or she can tease the subject in other ways - verbal, visual, other non-genital physical, etc.
 
In the case of the dominant woman who completely ignores the sexuality of her subject, locking away his genitalia, the submissive is made to experience a kind of objectification and dehumanization through that effective removal of his sexuality - an intrinsic part of one's humanity - which naturally causes his submission to more heavily upon him. Orgasm isn't simply denied, it's no longer a consideration. He becomes a sexual non-entity… something less than a man and thus more the slave.
 
She who chooses alternate forms of teasing while having the submissive locked in chastity, can impose an even more excruciating style of Tease and Denial by combining the tease effect with the physical removal of possible genital contact. Rejection isn't just something anticipated now, with fulfillment in orgasm still being hoped for… application of a chastity device can effectively kill hopes, causing tease to be seen and felt even more as torture.
 
As a lifestyle dominatrix, who deeply enjoys my sexuality and my natural tendencies towards female domination in all situations, particularly sexual ones… I think it only obvious why Tease and Denial, and for that matter Orgasm Denial, would hold such an appeal to me.
 
How do I commonly partake in these forms of orgasm control? That really depends on the person and my mood at the time. I am very focused in my actions, intending to get as much personal enjoyment as possible out of what I do and who I do it to ~grinz~. I often mix very strict and focused, with darkly seductive - intense teasing with a nasty erotic edge. Sometimes sadistic, sometimes almost affectionate, sometimes coldly nothing at all… but everything played to manipulate my victim and further my control over him. My fetish for chastity and related devices only gives me more options in the course I choose to take, and my past experience in key holding only makes it all the easier for me to tighten my fist around the sexuality of my captive.
 
In the end, Tease and Denial is a part of all my femdom activities to some degree… simply because it's so easily and obviously is a part of all female domination / submission equations that involve sexuality. Domination is all about control, and the manipulation of another's sexuality is an excellent means to acheiving this. Actual Orgasm Denial as the primary intention, in terms of fetish or style of play, isn't always the focus of what I do, but the play of frustration and fulfillment is a beautifully powerful tool that is greatly enjoyed by any lifestyle dominatrix who has happily embraced the sadism within ~laughs~.
 

Domina Amanda

Female Domination Phoen Sex - 1-800-356-6169
 

"Why do they say I'm a Dark Seductress?

Maybe it's because I know how to use my beautiful young body…

and my perverse mind… to torture and contol any man I choose - Tease and Denial"

"I'm going to play with you until you squirm and beg…

and then I'm going to keep right on doing it until you gasp and cry - it's too much…

and then… well, we'll just have to see what I do then - Tease and Denial"

Do these words sound good to you… tease and denial? They do to me ~grinz~.
 
The word tease, in this context, essentially means behavior intending to arouse sexual desire in another person, hinting at the possibility of satisfaction and building up hopes for such, but ultimately not fulfilling what is suggested… resulting in frustration and disappointment in the one being teased.
 
When used to describe someone - a "tease" is a person, usually female, who intentionally preys on the sexual desires of another, manipulating this as a means of influencing that person. While the "tease" is the one being pursued or performing, she is also the one in control, since the desires she invokes can easily be used as a tool for domination. The more intense the arousal, the greater the hope for fulfillment… leading to the other's desperation becoming more intense, and with this, the greater her control.
 
Denial, in blunt terms, is the refusal to allow something that is desired. In this context, sexual fulfillment of some form, ranging from the most basic forms of attention and approval, all the way to orgasm itself.
 
When used in relation to the sexual act, denial is the refusal of one person to fulfill the sexual arousal of another. Just as the word itself is blunt in its meaning, so too is denial in the sexual sense, especially when its comes to orgasm denial (this form of play usually having a prelude of some kind of sexual act that builds the strong need for orgasm over time, only to be shut down repeatedly in rejection).
 
When brought together, tease and denial is form of sexual play focused on the manipulation of another person with the intent to cause intense stimulation but without the promise of orgasm. Instead, the goal is to "edge" - keeping the subject on the edge of orgasm without actually going over into climax. This leaves the person in a heightened state of arousal and excitement, but mixed with a growing frustration and helplessness as the effect of the "edging" denial builds. In the end, release may be allowed, but just as often is not.
 
The result is a clear power exchange, putting the "tease" in the position of domination, while the one facing denial is put into a position of submission to the control of the person determining his sexual fate. When performed over time, through multiple sessions, the impact of this control device becomes all the stronger, and with it, the domination of the "tease" over the denied submissive. Skillful manipulation of arousal, hope and frustration by the dominant woman further deepens the subject's degree of submission and recognition of it.
 
Tease and denial doesn't always have to end in orgasm denial (which is itself the title of a form of sexual play whose conclusion is more certain). While the name suggests this to be the expected result, orgasm is sometimes allowed either in its ruined form, or as a surprise ending.
 
Unexpected fulfillment is actually a means to achieve greater control over the subject. If the ending is always certain, then the conclusion is always anticipated. But if orgasm is occasionally allowed, especially when the desperate hope for release has been greatly built up, while the person still doubts it will happen due to past experience… then the impact and appreciation of the reward will be magnified, and with it the control over the person by the "tease". Also, skillful and prolonged teasing just prior to allowed fulfillment usually leads to a much stronger orgasm than normal… not just in terms of the psychological relief, but actual physical enjoyment due to the built up intensity and volume of fluid released.
 
A ruined orgasm is a more devious form of disappointment which can cause even greater sexual frustration than tease and denial. In a ruined orgasm, the subject is led to believe that the hoped for ejaculation is going to be allowed, right up to the point of the climax actually beginning… and then sexual stimulation is abruptly and completely withdrawn at that very moment, resulting in the first seconds of the orgasm being as good as expected, but then it dying quickly from lack of attention. Thus, the orgasm is ruined, with only a fraction of the anticipated enjoyment being had, which makes the disappointment and resulting sexual frustration all the worse (to say the least of physical discomfort).
 
Continued in - Thoughts on Orgasm Denial
 
Domina Amanda

Female Domination Phone Sex - 1-800-356-6169
 

"It's time for some very strict and demanding orgasm control…

I see no reason to let you cum… and after all, this isn't about what you want…

it's only about what I enjoy… and right now, I like seeing you suffer - Orgasm Denial"