"Holding a male in bondage is something enjoyable for the dominant female…
But rope and chains are no necessity in her control of a slave…
Women simply have better taste than men…
And see such as perfect ways to accessorize their property - Bondage Sex"

(By: Domina Amanda) Talk about an unexpected interruption, and the incredible luck of one of my phone sex callers. All of you are going to be jealous, but one lucky boy got the chance to listen in on me in all my cruel femdom glory ~laughs~.
 
So, a few days ago, I decided to do some domination phone sex calls in the late afternoon. I let some of my male slaves and one female schedule appointments with me up until around 8pm that evening, which was fine since I had plans for 10pm and expected to be done with my phone domination play by then.
 
As expected, I finished up that portion of the day's female domination fun with plenty of time to prepare for the night's festivities… these involving a certain young male sex slave who I was sure would be arriving precisely on time.
 
Now, this guy is a pain slut I've been working up nicely on the whip. He submits beautifully to female domination, takes direction well, is naturally submissive, and has a love of two things I adore - rope bondage sex and the single tail leather whip.
 
A typical femdom session with him usually goes something like this - first, very tight rope bondage, stretching his limbs to their limits… followed by a minimum hour of the whip across his back, ass and legs… this puts him hovering in a euphoria of masochism, which I feed more by clamping his nipples, adding weights to them in degrees… then, keeping with the rope bondage theme, his cock and balls are laced up tight in wound layers of cord… a riding crop is applied to them until the precum drool is hanging in long streams from the end of his cock… then the crop is used to beat the clamps off his nipples… and… well, you get the general idea I'm sure ~grinz~. I usually end our femdom session with a hard dose of bondage sex in the form of a thick strapon up his ass while the rope still holds him tight. A rubber cock is like an exclamation point at the end of any female domination scene… driving the point home, quite literally ~laughs~.
 
Like I said, he shows up right on time… and after some preliminary displays of obeisance, we go right into the main femdom event, in form much similar to what I describe above.
 
Maybe half an hour into things, I hear the phone ring, but on my female domination line. Surprise, surprise, I'm supposed to be logged out of the system, but I'm still getting calls. Now I don't at all like my femdom sessions being interrupted, but when I found out who it was, I decided to take the call… and put the phone on speaker.
 
Now, this particular caller of course is into female domination, but he also has a fetish for voyeurism and punishment… which I will get into more in my next post (continued - bondage sex).

Domina Amanda
Female Domination Phone Sex - 1-800-356-6169
 

"Is it possible to blend sensual and cruel femdom within the same moment?
Of course… part of the very nature of the female can be seen in that context…
The female sex is naturally alluring, but also capable of great cruelty…
And no matter how soft the face, the eyes betray a love of sadism…
The fool thinks women beautiful, but gentle and weak - Domination Phone Sex"

"The proper femdom training of a male sex slave takes constant attention to detail…

By nature, the male isn't the brightest of creatures, so the dominatrix must keep firm control…

When seeing to the discipline and training of her property - Female Domination Phone Sex"

(By: Domina Amanda) The next assignment I've written for our new femdom website - Female Domination Bootcamp - is a lesson in one of the most basic things expected of a male sex slave - how to properly kneel before your dominatrix. The inexperienced think that the word "kneel" alone describes what is to be done when the command is given, but there is much more to it than that. The proper display of respect for female domination, and obedience before women in general, takes more than just dropping to your knees.
 
Click - Female Domination - to read the lesson and learn - "If you hope to become a male sex slave, it's time to learn how to kneel properly before a woman."
 
You should be thankful that I have taken the time to teach you these things, and you should read what is stated carefully and practice it often on your own. Future owners may have their own specific ways of doing things, but this basic form is common amongst both female and male sex slaves, and its proper display will make a good first impression. Besides also, it will clearly show that you acknowledge female domination as superiority of the opposite sex… a demonstration that should be openly made by any male (this also includes female domination phone sex calls - when commanded to kneel you should do so as if the dominatrix were standing in the room with you. Hiding behind the phone and lying only makes your desire to be a male sex slave a lie, and takes away from your own enjoyment of your submission).
 
As with all of my female domination assignments, there is a special audio ending that I have recorded for this femdom lesson. It provides additional instruction in your male sex slave training, which I am saying directly to you so there can be no misunderstanding in what I expect.
 

Domina Amanda

Female Domination Phone Sex - 1-800-356-6169
 

"One of the most common positions a male sex slave will find himself in during a femdom session…

Is on his knees before his dominatrix, in a display of obeisance to his betters…

And nothing will incite anger in his owner faster than poor form while kneeling - Female Domination"

"Does the thought of cruel femdom humiliation make your cock hard and your balls ache?
Especially when your ridiculously small penis is to be crushed under a beautiful humiliatrix boot?
You men are all the same… simple minded gluttons for punishment…
But that‘s just fine to me… I like making little boys cry - Small Penis Humiliation"

(By: Domina Amanda) You have an embarrassing secret, don't you? No, I'm not talking about that pathetically small penis hiding between your legs… I'm talking about how much you love being abused by women. You're not a simple slave, you're a male humiliation whore that gets off on being savagely abused by the superior female sex. And I agree with you. Men deserve to be treated like shit because that is what they are. Thus, it only makes sense that cruel femdom humiliation would make your cock hard… and that a humiliatrix like myself would enjoy dishing out the deserved abuse.
 
With this exact truth in mind, we have a male humiliation phone sex site that is just perfect for something like you… and more importantly, perfect for the humiliatrix looking for a new piece of male garbage to kick. I don't mean a cute little pick-on-me phone sex line. I mean a place where the women involved truly enjoy what they are doing to you. Something like small penis humiliation is just the obvious starting point for what we have in mind for you… our tastes in cruel femdom humiliation are quite extensive, and thoroughly ruthless.
 

Click - Small Penis Humiliation Phone Sex
 
"The shit I'm going to do to you will make your past humiliation look like a happy Christmas morning.
Male trash as pathetic as you deserves to be ridiculed - it's your proper place in life.
An inferior. A laughing stock. An object of abuse." - Domina Amanda
 

So suck it up, bitch and click the link for a heavy dose of domination and masochism. There you can read more about some of the nasty things waiting for you, while your cowardly ass tries to build up the courage to make the call. First rule of small penis humiliation that every humiliatrix knows - men with tiny dicks are cowardly dogs. So get your shit together, you time wasting asshole. We didn't open this male humiliation phone sex site so you could hide in the corner and dream about the cruel femdom abuse you'd get if you called. We aren't here to wait for you… you exist for us to have fun abusing, so take your two fingers off your small penis and get your ass here now.
 

Cruel Humiliatrix Amanda
Small Penis Humiliation Phone Sex - 1-800-356-6169
 

"As an exhibitionist, public male humiliation is an obvious fetish of mine…
The options are literally endless… from simple verbal abuse to shameful, perverse acts…
An easy one that I often enjoy… taking a man to a crowded public place…
Then forcing him to drop his pants and stand there in front of everyone…
For all those people to laugh at the cruel joke between his legs - Small Penis Humiliation"

"The concept of cock control goes far beyond sexual techniques…
It isn't just another way of saying orgasm control or more intense cock teasing…
It takes these things and immerses them deeply in female domination…
Where they become a means to much greater male subjugation - Cock Control"

(By: Domina Amanda) I get so many domination phone sex calls that are absolutely hilarious. I swear, it never ceases to amaze me what a man will do, let alone come up with, when his cock is hard. And I'm not talking about simple things like cock and ball torture, where the guy wants a healthy dose of abusive cock control with his female domination ~grinz~… I mean these weird ass things that you can't always wrap you brain around. Things that make you wonder - "what the hell is it about this wacky fetish that is turning him on so much?"
 
Now, I'm not really against any of these oddball fetish ideas… I think most of them are hilarious, so I have a great time getting involved with the crazy cock play ~laughs~… some even end up being sexually interesting for me once things really get going. No, I'm more interested in where these ideas come from.
 
Example… I've had a few domination phone sex calls with this one guy who likes to make enemas out of everything he has in the fridge. Leftover Chinese food, half eaten salads, raman noodles, fruits and veggies, random condiments, etc. Into the blender it goes and then, once liquefied, he boils it up and gives himself an enema. Then he likes to be forced to hold it in and be sent outside to walk around the block while wearing a diaper. Ending with him being made to let it out on his front doorstep.
 
I laugh my ass off the entire time I'm on the phone with him. I friggin' love it. Totally wacked out weird fetish but it's hilarious. And I know he loves hearing me laugh at him through it. His cock gets so hard he has trouble with it in the diaper.
 
As for what led him to this specific fetish… who knows. Female domination, male humiliation, enema control - that's all obvious and many share them. But specifically wanting to put a full cup o’ soup up your butt ~laughs~… people never cease to amaze me.
 
And as for examples… trust me, that was a mild one.

Domina Amanda
Female Domination Phone Sex - 1-800-356-6169
 

"You want me to have control of your cock…
In fact, you want it to be mine… my property to do with as I please…
But if I own your dick… that must mean I own you too…
Cock control is a lot more than just me deciding if you cum - Female Domination"

"You have a lot to learn about female domination and superiority…

And we intend to see to it that you learn your lessons well…

Whether we enjoy you as a well trained, attentive male sex slave…

Or a clumsy whipping boy often punished, remains to be seen - Domination Phone Sex"

I posted an introduction of sorts for myself on our new femdom website - Domination Bootcamp. This is a place built specifically for the dominatrix as a testament to female superiority and the ongoing effort to educate the inferior male sex. Presented in a series of assignments, written by the beautiful ladies who are a part of our group, these pieces each serve as a form of homework that the slave can read and complete on his own. The goal - to introduce new students to the basics of female domination, and to further the education of the more experienced male sex slave as he seeks to embrace his submission ever more deeply (also - these assignments are a perfect supplement to the lessons received during domination phone sex calls with our dominatrix instructors).
 
"You're going to learn the real meaning of submission… and it's not about what you want. It's about you do as I please, to perfection. " Click - Female Domination"
 
Like I said, this first piece I've posted serves as an introduction… a blunt statement intended to make it very clear to the aspiring male sex slave, that female domination means your focus in life is my happiness alone. Any enjoyment you get out of your service is of no concern to me… it's time to learn one of the mantras of female superiority - you are insignificant, while I am everything. As a slave, anything can be done to you, and you will do anything for me.
 
New femdom assignments will constantly be added to this site… ranging in content from basic female domination themes, to heavier BDSM subjects such as CBT, long term orgasm denial, and femdom strap on training. Slave comments are allowed in response to completed assignments, and there is always the possibility that I will answer what is said. Students in need of additional instruction and tutoring are directed to contact me for a private domination phone sex session where I can see what needs to be done to correct and improve your performance.
 
Something special - each assignment posted to the Domination Bootcamp site has a special audio ending recorded by the dominatrix who wrote the lesson. This clip will give additional instructions, final commands, and verbal punishments where necessary. The male slave is directed to read and complete the assignment before listening to the audio - until completed you do not deserve to hear our voices.
 

Domina Amanda

Female Domination Phone Sex - 1-800-356-6169
 

"You look so helpless like that… bent over with your wrists and ankles bound…

And so very vulnerable… I could do absolutely anything I wanted to you, and I think I will…

The femdom phone sex sessions we have had so far, were only the beginning…

Now it's time to take BDSM to a whole other level with you - Female Domination"

"The second in a new series of femdom websites dedicated to male slave training…

Hosted by a gathering of some of the best dominatrix instructors known…

Female superiority demands your submission… call to present yourself - Female Domination Sex"

The goddesses of LDW have decided to open yet another fetish site as part of their every growing domination phone sex empire ~grinz~ - click - Domination Bootcamp - to enter a femdom BDSM portal created to teach all men a simple truth - that the way of the female, is superiority… and the way of the male is only submission and slavery. Men are born to serve women… and women are born to have all that they desire.
 
"This isn't a place for domination sex games and cute teasing… this is a place for obedience only. You will learn to do as you are told, without question, without hesitation… you will obey the will of your dominatrix instructors and you will embrace your slavery… or you will know the cruelest punishments imaginable. No matter what path you take, in the end the conclusion will be the same…. you will obey, slave boy."
 
This site presents assignments written by the dominatrix elite of LDW for the single purpose of training you clumsy, ignorant men to be suitable slaves for your female betters. These instructions will include lessions in female domination and all aspects of service that your future owner will demand from you, both sexual and mundane. Guided masturbation assignments will train your cock in orgasm denial and control, giving your worthless dick a better chance to satisfy a woman by lasting longer than your normal 2 minutes. Femdom CBT sessions will introduce you to the pleasures a female sadist will enjoy as she abuses your body. You will learn how to properly worship a woman's beautiful ass, and appreciate the wonderful rewards of face sitting as you are made a throne for your lovely owner. You will be exposed to the pleasures found in BDSM that a woman might use a male sex slave for, and learn how to be an obedient subject in such sessions. Femdom strapon training will open your ass to female domination sex, making you a proper ass whore for the rubber cock of any woman who wants to use you. And these are just the beginning on your path to becoming a male sex slave that may prove worth owning.
 
These assignments are only a start. They exist to prepare you for your next great stage in slave training - when you call one of our dominatrix instructors for a private lesson through domination phone sex. From there your training will develop at a much faster pace, with your teacher assessing your qualities and addressing your deficiencies. Whatever type of slave you most hope to become… be it a whipping boy for a female sadist looking for a pain slut that can endure her inhuman desires… an anal whore in need of deep strapon training so as to be found desirable to a dominatrix with a 12 inch cock, and a love for hours long domination sex… a chastity slave wanting to become well versed in long term orgasm denial… or any of the many other slave types that a woman might look to own, this site will open the door to your new life of male submission.
 
Domina Amanda
Female Domination Phone Sex - 1-800-356-6169
 
CBT means Cock and Ball Torture
 

"This is only the first step in your slave training… there is much more to be done with you…

I look forward to getting my hands on you in a private BDSM session…

There you will really learn about female superiority and how to serve a woman… 

Or you will know terrible pain for your failure - Domination Phone Sex"

"The first in a new series of femdom websites created by a host of dominatrix sadists…

with the intent of preparing male slaves to perform directly for us…

When you're ready, you'll call and present yourself for real ridicule - Femdom Humiliation"

(By: Domina Amanda) The sadistic mistresses of LDW have come together to form a new website in support of our ruthless female domination phone sex empire ~grinz~ - click - Femdom Humiliation Bootcamp - a fetish portal for all of you sick little perverts out there whose blood races and small cocks get hard at the thought of doing degrading, humiliating, shameful acts under the command of a sadistic dominatrix who loves to laugh as you make a fool out of yourself, especially in public.
 
"You've been searching for someone, perhaps a domination Humiliatrix, to take you down with extreme male humiliation… and you have come to the right place."
 
This site presents assignments written by the humiliatrix experts of LDW for the single purpose of embarassing the hell out of your pathetic ass. There are step by step masturbation directions focused on small penis humiliation… scathing femdom bitch out sessions of laced with heavy verbal abuse intent on making it clear just how much of a worthless shit you are… detailed settings presenting developed male humiliation scenes commanding you to perform for our pleasure and your shame… for the willing or unwilling exhibitionist, there is public humiliation punishment which sends you out into the cold, cruel world for a dose of what you deserve… and extreme degradation training - assignments with the goal of making you the best "worst" your sick male slave self can be.
 
These assignments are preparation for the real ridicule to come - when you call us for a humiliatrix phone sex session that will take what you've learned to an entirely new level of masochism under the boot of female domination. So, no matter what the specifics of your fetish are… be it forced feminization leading to public humiliation… or embracing the joke nature made out of you, through small penis humiliation… whatever. It doesn't matter to us, we just love laughing at you and kicking flithy dogs when they're down.
 
Humiliatrix Amanda
Small Penis Humiliation Phone Sex - 1-800-356-6169
 

"I want to tie you up at one of my CFNM dominatrix parties…

Standing naked in the middle of the room, arms tied and stretched above your head…

Completely open to public view… so everyone can get a good look at you… 

And laugh their asses off at how pathetic your tiny dick is - Small Penis Humiliation"

"My life and experiences in BDSM and female domination…

has left me with so many very interesting femdom stories to tell…

Stories of bondage, sadism, sexual humiliation, and domination sex - CFNM Femdom"

As I was saying, the biggest difficulty in writing something "about" yourself in this context, is that people make the error of assuming that if you mention a sexual fetish directly, that must mean that you are "totally into" that one thing, along with all it encompasses in whatever way the given reader personally views the topic… and that if you don't mention some other fetish directly, then that must mean you "hate it and want nothing to do with it". Both extremes are ridiculous assumptions that disregard how complex human beings and their personal motivations are. The same holds true with one's style regarding a fetish, and how people assume you must "always" proceed (I think that due to the medium, these assumptions get even more narrow with female domination phone sex).
 
As I said months ago, it's impossible for anyone to fully define themselves - all they are, and all they do. And in the attempt to make any sort of personal presentation, the standard dilemma arises - the less you write the more things can be assumed… while the more you write, the more new questions and assumptions are raised even as you answer the prior existing ones. It would be fine if the assumptions follow the right direction, but usually assumptions are influenced as much by the readers own desires as they are the writer's actual thoughts, if not even more so. So the best one can do is to speak honestly, giving the reader a clue as to the personality behind the writer, and from there open the door to future discussion with those who may be like-minded or at least intrigued.
 
What I have set out to do more than anything here, is demonstrate my own confidence in speaking about myself, and my pride in who I am - a lifestyle and professional dominatrix deeply interested and involved in femdom BDSM. Everyone has something to hide, but when it comes to my personality and lifestyle I don’t feel I have anything to be ashamed of. Like everyone I have made mistakes, but I don't look at those things with embarrassment, I instead see them as a vital part of a process of learning that has developed me into the person I am today. And when it comes to my sexual practices and outlook on life in general, I don't believe I should feel any guilt over enjoying myself, so long as my behaviors are responsible and safe, which they always are… so why not speak of them with pride.
 
Many of you that are reading this are obviously doing so to get a feel for the type of person I am - and that is exactly the point. Specific questions you may have are always better discussed than left to answers assumed. That being true, I will allow anyone who has read this to contact me if there is something they are wondering about, particularly if they are interested in calling me for female domination phone sex sessions, but are somehow unsure about our compatibility. This is perfectly reasonable and I would much rather that, than have confusion rob someone of the chance to entertain me ~grinz~.
 
When I started writing the "About Me" essays, I had intended to do about a dozen and change… but I also intended to just write whatever came to mind and let things run from there… literally letting the essays write themselves, allowing one to open the door to the next. While I plan to continue to write openly about myself and my opinions, I don't plan on titling any more essays with the ubiquitous "About Me". It suited a purpose, but when you have forty essays with that as part of the tile, it gets a bit clumsy and awkward for search engines and general titling.
 
So this essay you are reading now is going to stand as something of a conclusion, not to me writing about myself, but me organizing future essays in such a way.
 
I have many more things written or started already… a series of pieces on chastity for example, along with a number of femdom stories. Some of these stories also have to do with chastity, but others are expansions on things I've mentioned in the past. Avid readers will remember many a passage where I told a brief summary of some event in my life, and said someday I would expand on it in greater detail… well, it's those femdom stories of forced strapon training, extreme bondage, small penis humiliation, female domination sex and lots more, that I will be getting around to now. Also, of course, more of my recent experiences with callers during domination phone sex sessions… since you bastards are so damn entertaining ~laughs~.
 

Terminus Est…

Domina Amanda

Tease and Denial Phone Sex - 1-800-356-6169
 

"The Dark Seductress of bondage and female domination…

Addiction… obsession… she is the dangerously beautiful Demoness…

It's no surprise so many crawl to her… and her attention is in such high demand - Domina Amanda"

"I am a dominant female… a lifestyle dominatrix…

and it is that dominance that is the constant in all things for me…

My sexual choices don't define who I am… who I am directs my sexual choices - Female Domination"

Throughout all of the essays I've written here, particularly those contributing to the "About Domina Amanda" series, I've talked greatly about myself, my views on life and female domination, and my sexual interests and activity within both the greater BDSM community and domination phone sex.
 
I've intentionally avoided the common practice of actually listing and categorizing all of the different sexual activities I enjoy in a single promotional essay. I've been involved in BDSM so deeply since I was too young to say, that my interests are far too varied for that. Simply running off titles of things you like, never really gives a clear view into how or why you do. Besides, attempts at fully listing things fetish by fetish comes off weird to me. It ends up looking more like a menu or checklist, and never fully does justice to the person's true sexuality.
 
Commonly, domination phone sex operators work within the confines of a set character type - they have specific things they do, in a specific way. This makes things simple - you want that, you go here - done. You can look at each one and say "she is this, she does that and it's done this way" - things boxed up nice and simple so you know what you are going to get.
 
That's not the case with me, nor is it with most human beings.
 
While I have tried to give an impression as to who I am and what to expect if you contact me… I've written as much as I have here to make it clear that I am not a single fetish and form. I am a lifestyle dominatrix… not just someone involved professionally in a scene with "dominatrix" being a title of profession, but someone whose lifestyle is in many ways best summed up by that same word - a strong female possessing a dominant personality and all of the natural superiority of her sex. While I do own slaves, do wear fetish clothing, do enjoy bondage and sadism, my sexual practices don’t define who I am… who I am directs my sexual choices, along with all other choices I make in life.
 
My involvement in female domination, BDSM, male sexual humiliation, domination phone sex, and everything related that you can think of runs much deeper than occupation or advertisement… or for that matter, hobby. As a result, my sexual interests are greatly varied as is my approach to them, but also, the level of experience I have in them means that how I choose to enjoy myself greatly varies with each situation and person.
 
No human being likes to do things the same way every time. Sure we all have general preferences that remain a constant, but some days we like our food hot and spicy… while other days we may like it a little more tame, yet still rich and flavorful. That's one of the things I always find interesting about people approaching a dominatrix… like I said earlier, they think you are some sort of one-dimensional creature… an assumption that doesn't really fit the "female superiority" that the same people so hope for when they cry submission ~laughs~.
 
Example - while I do very much like heavier, physical forms of female domination and BDSM, I also like more subtle femdom forms, even gentle methods of control and manipulation. I am a dominant female, and it is that dominance that is the constant in all things for me. How it is exhibited varies greatly in response to the situation and my mood, but since it's a fundamental part of my personality, it influences all that I am and directs the course I take in whatever I do and enjoy. I don't put limits on the possibilities after that, so long as they are consistent with who I am and what I believe. What matters is my enjoyment, my getting what I want, and there are many ways this can happen… just as there are many ways I can enforce my superiority over others. Female domination isn't a "style" or "role", it's the condition of having power over others… and the true dominant knows many paths towards this goal. (continued)  
 

Domina Amanda

Female Domination Phone Sex 1-800-356-6169
 

Continued in Part XLI - Domina Amanda
 

"Men like to deny the natural superiority of the female…

and try to claim that male domination is the rule, and female domination the exception…

and yet the instant a cock gets hard… all of these claims fail before reality - Tease and Denial"