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"Proper cock discipline will provide the dominatrix with a obedient male sex slave…
While a lazy approach to orgasm control will create a spoiled thing…
That confuses the order of importance that exists between slave and owner…
Firm control of sexuality is an absolute in the ownership of a male - Cock Control
"

 

 

(By: Domina Amanda - continuing from - orgasm control) I'm contemplating this letter about my friend's orgasm control class because the suggestion does seem interesting to me, and I've been thinking of shipping a male sex slave that I have off to him the next time he holds a cock sucking workshop (beyond anything he may learn, imagine the effect it will have on him, being packed up and sent to another man for a full week of forced bi… not only learn about cock sucking and cum swallowing, but to suck the cock of the instructor and other male sex slave students repeatedly in class). I have a sissy boy that might benefit from orgasm control under these unique conditions… he has forced bi fantasies already - as a sissy whore - but every good girlie should learn as much about orgasm control as possible, since it's even more improper for a sissy boy to have an unruly cock than a male sex slave.
 
I'm posting about it since it's on my mind right now and I'm kind of talking out loud through the keyboard… and I also have a couple of regular domination phone sex callers who I'm also considering for these cock control classes. Our phone sessions began with basic orgasm control and denial, but have developed into more extended and long term forms. Neither is being trained as a male sex slave - they both simply share a strong attraction to orgasm control and things related to that fetish. I'm wondering about the forced bi effect in relation to their claims of absolute obedience ~laughs~. Wave a cock in front of a man's face and either he will start running, or sucking… more often than not, the latter.
 
When I do decide what I want to do, I will share my decisions here, along with the results if I take him up on his offer.
 
Regardless of anything potentially learned in terms of cock control or otherwise… my interest is even more in the effect. The idea of packing a male sex slave or sissy boy off that way to a place they know little about and a man they've never met before. Then to be completely immersed in a type of forced bi setting that must be overwhelming. To me that sounds excellent ~laughs~. And it's also a very practical step in preparing a street whore for sale.
 
It's highly likely I will be sending the male sex slave I mentioned before to his next cock sucking class. That should be interesting ~grinz~ and I will share some details for the benefit and enjoyment of closet forced bi perverts.
 
On a side note…
 
While I'm an obvious believer in female superiority, I do have male friends who assume the control position in sexual domination (not with me ~laughs~), and who display dominant traits in their daily lives. While they are less than me, I don't argue their claims to dominance down on their level or in comparison to their own slaves (homosexual domination is something of a special case though). Logically, domination and submission in the fuller sense aren't the simplified sexual roles that BDSM makes them out to be… submission, deference and control in daily life are the reaction to that which is more dominant than you. Though friends, and treated as such, these men still know their place in the order of things when speaking to me. Female superiority is undeniable, and it's not limited to sexual domination or dependent upon fetishes like orgasm control to be recognized.

 

Domina Amanda
Cock Control Phone Sex - 1-800-356-6169
 

 

"A male sex slave is only a piece of property… something to be used and enjoyed…
For the benefit of the owner, as that owner pleases…
Concepts like cock control reflect the sexual domination of the owner…
But also proper focus, in that the orgasm exists only for the pleasure of the dominatrix…
Regardless of if it’s her own or that of her property - Orgasm Control
"

 

I love CBT Ballbusting



 

"Orgasm control is a sexual practice intent on extending the period just before orgasm…
For as long as reasonably possible, heightening stimulation and intensity of eventual release…
Achieved through many different techniques, it is employed both for pleasure and - Cock Control
"

 

 

(By: Domina Amanda) A friend of mine who is a part of the Boston BDSM community wrote me a letter recently describing an orgasm control workshop he's been hosting for male sex slave students. The purpose - to help train male property to a higher degree of sexual value through hands on instruction by another male. An accomplished master in the realm of homosexual domination and BDSM practices, he is very well versed in his field and a skilled teacher.
 
I know for a fact his cock sucking workshops have been very successful, primarily because he can demonstrate technique himself on the male sex slave, and then have them perform on him so he can give pinpoint correction. But I don't know what to think of his orgasm control classes yet, since the dynamics of are quite different. I'm inclined to have confidence in his cock instruction, since dominatrix friends who have sent slaves to his school before - both to increase the value of male prostitute property and give a male sex slave exposure to forced bi in a unique setting - speak well of his methods and results. But these reviews have again, been mostly of his cock sucking classes… the orgasm control workshop is still new.
 
He describes the orgasm control class as being taught first from lecture - the male sex slave students are given detailed explanation on just what this style of cock control is… what the reasons and advantages of its practice are to both the male sex slave and the owner… and tricks to improve one's obedience and self control, while making your cock and performance ever more pleasing. After this, he calls individual students forward, using them to demonstrate points made while the others watch. Over a period of days each male sex slave receives direct attention multiple times - there is a 2 day weekend class, and a 5 day full cock control program. Orgasm is only allowed if the owner has given prior consent, and even then the possibility only exists at logical points in the course (I'm told these occassions are also used to give cum swallowing lessons to those students in whore training).
 
Now, some might say - why would any owner send their slave property to be trained by another. Childish notions like that are for the simplistic who are either insecure or too new to BDSM to understand the deeper dynamics of community. It's not something one needs to do, it's something one can do to achieve certain goals. I've had many men and woman ask to send me their property for periods of time, to take advantage of my experience and influence. For that matter I've had many dominants ask me to help them learn more about proper and safe BDSM practices within fetishes they wish to enjoy. (continued - cock control)

 

Domina Amanda
Orgasm Control Phone Sex - 1-800-356-6169
 

 

"While sexual domination is an obvious means of controlling a male sex slave…
Female domination is never dependent upon strictly sexual means…
A dominatrix can easily have total obedience by simple fact of her superior will…
Cock control, is control of the male… but it's not what creates the correct order of the sexes…
It is merely a reflection and single aspect of something greater - Female Superiority
"

 

I love CBT Ballbusting



 

"The concept of cock control goes far beyond sexual techniques…
It isn't just another way of saying orgasm control or more intense cock teasing…
It takes these things and immerses them deeply in female domination…
Where they become a means to much greater male subjugation - Cock Control
"

 

 

(By: Domina Amanda) I get so many domination phone sex calls that are absolutely hilarious. I swear, it never ceases to amaze me what a man will do, let alone come up with, when his cock is hard. And I'm not talking about simple things like cock and ball torture, where the guy wants a healthy dose of abusive cock control with his female domination ~grinz~… I mean these weird ass things that you can't always wrap you brain around. Things that make you wonder - "what the hell is it about this wacky fetish that is turning him on so much?"
 
Now, I'm not really against any of these oddball fetish ideas… I think most of them are hilarious, so I have a great time getting involved with the crazy cock play ~laughs~… some even end up being sexually interesting for me once things really get going. No, I'm more interested in where these ideas come from.
 
Example… I've had a few domination phone sex calls with this one guy who likes to make enemas out of everything he has in the fridge. Leftover Chinese food, half eaten salads, raman noodles, fruits and veggies, random condiments, etc. Into the blender it goes and then, once liquefied, he boils it up and gives himself an enema. Then he likes to be forced to hold it in and be sent outside to walk around the block while wearing a diaper. Ending with him being made to let it out on his front doorstep.
 
I laugh my ass off the entire time I'm on the phone with him. I friggin' love it. Totally wacked out weird fetish but it's hilarious. And I know he loves hearing me laugh at him through it. His cock gets so hard he has trouble with it in the diaper.
 
As for what led him to this specific fetish… who knows. Female domination, male humiliation, enema control - that's all obvious and many share them. But specifically wanting to put a full cup o’ soup up your butt ~laughs~… people never cease to amaze me.
 
And as for examples… trust me, that was a mild one.

 

Domina Amanda
Female Domination Phone Sex - 1-800-356-6169
 

 

"You want me to have control of your cock…
In fact, you want it to be mine… my property to do with as I please…
But if I own your dick… that must mean I own you too…
Cock control is a lot more than just me deciding if you cum - Female Domination
"

 

I love CBT Ballbusting



 

"Long term orgasm denial opens up wonderful opportunties for…

The most devious kinds of sexual domination, especially when targeting the male slave.

A man's sexuality is already easily controlled by a woman…

But when a denial dominatrix takes control… things get much more interesting - Male Chastity"

 

 

(Continuing…) It's obvious that this fetish - chastity and long term orgasm denial - is an exceptional means of discipline and conditioning, one that can be enjoyed for its own sake, and employed very successfully in the training of a slave. Controlling another person's sexuality is a glaring example of domination and submission, one I enjoy taking to near tyrannical levels ~laughs~. I can be a cold, ruthless bitch when I have someone so helplessly in my hands, I love to see them squirm and beg, and I especially love building up hope and excitement in their eyes, only to smash it down with barely a word as I send them away ~smiles so evil~… the pleasures of female domination are near limitless in their potential for my enjoyment.
 
Denial like this may seem cruel to outsiders (and when it's meant to be, as in chastity belt punishment, that's exactly what it is), but in reality long term orgasm denial and sexual domination in this form is actually something very exciting to those who truly enjoy chastity as a fetish. The "not knowing" builds anticipation greatly, acting as a very powerful form of foreplay that when finally fulfilled, leads to a release that is intensely gratifying… more than just physically pleasurable, but also emotionally. Unexpected orgasm denial after teasing, or complete denial of expected sexual activity, keeps the person in that limbo state of not knowing, since fulfillment isn't something that can be looked forward to with any sort of scheduled certainty. Anticipation thus becomes riddled with doubt due to the very real possibility of disappointment (even though this sort of "disappointment" isn't really that in the common definition of the word to someone who is deeply into chastity - the disappointment is deeply enjoyed in its way too).
 
When the chastity slave can get into a routine of expected wait time leading to sure fulfillment - a schedule he can rely on - so much of the edge and intensity that could be had with long term orgasm denial is lost. The dependence is less on the key holder, than on the schedule, and since the slave can focus on the set day of reward, the days he must go without don't weigh as heavily.
 
Think of an addict who decides he is going to "prove he isn't addicted" by going a set amount of time without what he is addicted to. The fact that he knows what he wants is waiting for him at the end of the set time period makes things much easier because he knows its waiting there for him - he still holds some form of control over events. Take that end point away, and everything shifts drastically, as you leave him with no control over what is happening - the rules and conditions are no longer set, he is dependent totally on the decisions of another person, not the calendar.
 
When nothing can be counted on, excepting the will of their owner, the chastity slave quickly learns that their expectations, and more importantly, their wants, could come to nothing very easily… that such isn't important and the only deciding factor is the will of the key holder. The end result is a very strong sense of helplessness, that impresses their submission on them very heavily… which for the masochist, is only arousing and desirable. Denial of the hoped for reward hits heavily… but when the reward is finally given it's all the more appreciated and thus all the more enjoyed - through chastity and long term orgasm denial, the dominatrix wields the power of both pain and pleasure, refusal and reward, becoming all the more the center of the slave's world. Female domination is ultimately linked to sexuality, and chastity is sexual manipulation and control of a very direct form… even when the key holder is no where in sight. (continued…)

 

Domina Amanda

Orgasm Denial Phone Sex - 1-800-356-6169
 

 

"Being the inferior sex, men don't think with their brains…

They think with their cocks… and down there, size sadly does not reflect intelligence.

Chastity thus is not only cock control, but direct control of the puny male brain…

Lack of orgasm makes a man think more clearly and obey all the faster.

Clearly this is an excellent tool in the imposition of - Female Domination"

 

I love CBT Ballbusting



 

"The truth of female superiority is played out every time a man…

chases after a woman… and that woman chooses to use his desire to her advantage.

 The male should be thankful that the female has all too often been kind in the past…

For if women ever decide to turn the tables fully… men would never have a chance - Female Domination" 

 

 

I've added my latest free erotic audio to the Cock Control Forum - "Crawl To Me…" - it's a pure female domination tease, addressing the all too obvious need you have to submit to the most beautiful dominatrix you'll ever know… me. Have you ever imagined what it would be like to be a male sex slave? Do you masturbate to femdom fantasies and BDSM scenarios? Your dreams don't matter to me, I will use your or not, as I please.
 
Click - "You'll crawl, beg, fetch, follow… like a good little slave boy."
 
I know you have a need to serve a beautiful woman… and that I am the dream you've had for so very long. Female superiority is a concept that you understand and happily accept… and submission is what you desire, at the hands of a dominant female who will leave you no choice but to submit to her will fully. Your life will be one of service to my every whim… as serving boy and male sex slave… and everything else I choose. No task will be refused by you… you will do everything you are told, and your only reply will be, "Yes, Domina". Serve me well and perhaps you will become a favored pet that I will let lie at my feet… be displeasing, and no humiliation will be too much for you… no punishment will you not edure. 
 
This is an introduction and opportunity for all of you out there who are dying to serve me. You have your chance now. Listen to what I say, and if female domination is truly what you feel drawn to, you may contact me for consideration. Only the most submissive will have any chance with me - I don't have time for games or brats. Be on your knees when you present yourself… for when talking to a dominant female that is where you belong, and if you interest me, that is where you will be spending most of your time, slave boy. 
 
This female domination erotic audio has been put in the public section of Cock Control Forum, since it's content does not cross into the overly explicit. You do not need a registered account to access it, or the others in that part of the forum, though you will need one to get to the more graphic sex clips. When you are ready to take the next step in your submission to me, click this link - Domination Phone Sex - and we will talk more of your slave potential.
 
My entire fetish collection is listed here - Free Erotic Audio - there are many more pieces here dealing with female superiority and domination, along with related BDSM femdom themes.
 
Domina Amanda
Tease and Denial Phone Sex - 1-800-356-6169
 

 

"The Mistresses of Cock Control are simply dominatrix teases…

They are born experts in female domination. For them such isn't something learned or acted…

It's a way of life that they fully embrace… and sexually, it's something they exploit.

These sexual recordings don't exist for the pleasure of the male sex slave…

They exist to lure him in… for to these women, he is only sexual prey - Free Erotic Audio Clips"

 



 

"CFNM femdom is pretty much the standard with me…

When it comes to slaves and a domination session, clothes just get in the way…

 And they have no business wearing them anyway… such garments are only for the free…

Being naked makes them wonderfully vulnerable, and suits their position - Bondage Sex" 

 

 

Yes, for all you eager beaters out there, I've finished yet another new free erotic audio and added it to the Cock Control Forum - "I Didn't Feel Like Wearing Any Clothes Today" - it's a cock tease piece hinting at the beginnings of a CFNM femdom scene.
 
Click - "You won't be needing any clothes for what I have planned."
 
CFNM Femdom you say… when I'm wearing so little clothes? A lace bra, panties, stockings, and a beautiful pair of sexy high heels is clothes enough for me. You though, you won't be wearing anything at all. Can't have anything get between me and your cock… except maybe your hands when I tell you to start stroking for me. This isn't going to be a heavy femdom session, but it is going to be intense… slowly building, blood pumping, deep breathing intense. The Dark Seductress is going to show you what a real cock tease is like from a dominatrix… not some soft, cute thing… but something so dangerously and powerfully erotic it will feel as if your are being consumed by it. 
 
Perhaps you have a panty fetish… a love of high heels… long, beautiful legs… a tight body, with a firm ass… whatever it is that turns a man on, I am it and so much more. I am an effortless cock tease - I don't have to do anything more than enter the room to get ever cock in the place focused on me. And when I do turn my attention to a particular man, the effect is overwhelming. For me, female domination comes naturally… and I will show you just how natural your submission to me can be, slave boy. 
 
This CFNM femdom erotic audio is in the public section of Cock Control forum, so all of your reading this can access and listen to it without having to register an account. I have over a dozen other audio sex stories and tease and denial clips up in the public forum, so there is plenty there to keep you and your cock busy. I also have quite a few more clips in the private section, but those do need a registered account to reach, since their sexual content is more graphic. When you are done listening to my cock tease recordings and want the real thing, click the following link to learn more about all you've been missing - Domination Phone Sex.
 
My entire collection is listed here - Free Erotic Audio - with links taking you to respective forum listings.
 
Domina Amanda
Tease and Denial Phone Sex - 1-800-356-6169
 
CFNM - means Clothed Female, Naked Male.
 

 

"The Mistresses of Cock Control love to cock tease…

When you listen to them speak to you… you can hear it so clearly in their voices…

 And there is so much waiting for you to listen to - Free Erotic Audio Clips"

 



 

"No, you're not going to rush this… start stroking nice and slow…

I'm going to play up a nasty, hot cock tease while you beg to jerk faster…

 You're going to do every single thing I tell you… and I'm going to love it…

Obey perfectly… and you will too - Tease and Denial

 

 

I have a new free erotic audio that I am sure you will enjoy, its been added to Cock Control Forum so get off your fat lazy butts and check it out - "Guided Masturbation, Tease and Denial" - and by the title it should be clear to you what this one is all about… the beginnings of a guided masturbation session where I take control of you and your cock so we can see just what kind of powerful orgasm we can jerk out of you.
 
Click - "You are going to masturbate for me… so take off your clothes and start stroking now."
 
Yup… time for some CFNM femdom mixed with my orgasm control play… I've made it clear in the past I expect my men to be naked and that's not going to change now. The faster you get your clothes off the faster we can get down to some nice, hot tease and denial business here, boy. So get that cock out and stop wasting time… we're going to be at this for hours but when I want to cock tease, I hate waiting. 
 
That's it… show me how much you love to stoke for me… keep your eyes on me alone, and keep jerking. I know you love this dress I'm wearing, it's so short and tight, and it keeps sliding up my beautiful long legs… I bet you love that even more ~grinz~ show me you do. I want to see that orgasm erupt from you as you call out my name. But you better do exactly as you're told, or our guided masturbation is going to quickly shift to an orgasm denial scene and your balls are going to be sore for a week. 
 
I had to put this erotic audio in the private section of the Cock Control forum, because it gets down and dirty right away, and that's too much for public exposure. You'll need a registered account to access - if you don't have one its no big deal just click the link and look for "register" on that page. You don't need anything more than a valid email address, no private info need be given. I have a couple dozen other CFNM femdom clips currently up on the boards, and more to come in time. But why listen to recordings when you can have a strict, sexy tease and denial session with the real thing - Domination Phone Sex.
 
My entire collection is listed here - Free Erotic Audio - compiled in one place with descriptions of what to expect in each clip.
 

Looking for long audio sex stories and erotic tease clips?
Visit 'Mistress Always Wins' at - Erotic Audio
The Internet's Premier Collection of Femdom Recordings.
 

Domina Amanda
Orgasm Denial Phone Sex - 1-800-356-6169
 
CFNM - means Clothed Female, Naked Male.
 

 

"The Mistress of Cock Control are experts in cock tease and orgasm control…

Strict, cruel CFNM femdom sessions to soft, sensual domination…

 A huge library of of the hottest sexual recordings, waiting for you - Free Erotic Audio Clips"

 



 

"I'm not in a tease and denial mood…

I just want to play with your cock and balls until you can't stand it anymore…

Of course when I say play… I mean play very, very rough - Femdom CBT"

 

 

Wake up all of you horny cock strokers out there… it's time for you to do another guided masturbation assignment for me… so get your stiff dicks over to "May I Cum?" - the premier orgasm control portal on the web - and get started on this week's lesson…
 
Click - "A little bit of pain makes the pleasure so much more enjoyable…"
 
The theme of this guided masturbation session - some mild CBT and fast paced cock stroking ~grinz~. No slowly building orgasm control play today, I want to see some furious dick pumping. When I tell you to, you're going to start jerking that stick as hard as you can… pounding down into your ball sack to beat it into submission ~laughs~.
 
Sure, we'll start off slow… got to tease you a bit before we get down to serious business… but "slow" isn't going to last long. This is the guided masturbation version of a "quickie" - some rough groping, and then hard fucking to the end. But of course my definition of "grope" always has a nasty femdom CBT edge to it when I think of men… actually, it's pretty rough when I think of women too. Can't say I'm not consistent in my sadism ~grinz~.
 
All of my guided masturbation assignments end in an audio tease that tells you if you're allowed to cum or not - I may let you enjoy the orgasm I've built up inside of you, or perhaps I will just leave your hard cock to painfully throb, unfulfilled and wanting ~laughs~. I'm the one in control, and you'll do as I say… but you know that already.

 

Domina Amanda
Femdom Phone Sex - 1-800-356-6169
 
CBT means Cock and Ball Torture
 

 

"What does - hands-on orgasm control mean to a dominatrix like me?

Simple… a pair of black leather gloves… lengthy femdom CBT… and you begging - Female Domination"

 

May I Cum - Orgasm Tease and Denial
 



 

"Male humiliation is an exceptionally easy fetish to play with…

after all… the male ego is such a very fragile thing…

strip him naked and you'll see how fragile his small penis is too - CFNM Femdom"

 

 

I've added a new Free Erotic Audio to the Cock Control Forum - "CFNM Tease and… a tiny little twist" - it's a cock tease that starts off going in one direction, but then shifts quickly to something quite different towards the end ~grinz~.
 
Click - "Take your clothes off for me… I like my men naked"
 
SPOILER - I don't like giving away the surprise but I want to make it easier for those who love this sort of thing to find this clip. It starts off as a CFNM cock tease, but then quickly switches into small penis humiliation when the clothes are fully off. Imagine what it would feel like to be so excited, with your hopes built up as this beautiful dominatrix tells you she wants you to strip your clothes off so she can play with you… only to be laughed at by her as you stand there with your tiny penis out, totally naked. Talk about shame and vulnerability.
 
I'm sure you will be able to tell by my voice in this clip how much I love each fetish… the laughter at the end makes this especially clear ~grinz~. CFNM femdom scenes are an obvious and appropriate turn on for so many reasons… but isn't it interesting how something like male humiliation… even when the target is a guy's pathetically small penis… can sound so sexy when it's a done by a beautiful woman? ~laughs~. I don't care either way, I love laughing at living, breathing sexual jokes, so in the end I'm going to have fun no matter what.
 
You'll find this erotic audio located in a public section of the Cock Control Forum, so it's open to all who want to listen. Only the more graphic clips are held in the private sections of that board. I have other more explicit recordings available, including CFNM femdom and small penis humiliation clips of a much stronger tone, but you will have to register an account to listen to those.
 
Visit my entire collection by clicking - Free Erotic Audio - and come back often since I'm always expanding it. And when you're ready to experience what it's like to talk to a beautiful, demanding dominatrix, instead of just listening to a recorded cock tease… call me - Domination Phone Sex.
 

Looking for long audio sex stories and erotic tease clips?
Visit 'Mistress Always Wins' at - Erotic Audio
The Internet's Premier Collection of Femdom Recordings.
 

Domina Amanda
Small Penis Humiliation Phone Sex - 1-800-356-6169
 
PS - CFNM means Clothed Female, Naked Male

 

 

"The hottest women in female domination…

exploring all of the sexual themes that make your cock hard…

CFNM femdom and small penis humiliation are only two possibilities…

There is so much more waiting for you to discover and enjoy - Free Erotic Audio Clips"

 


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