"Those who don’t understand chastity might think that femdom stories…
Involving that theme are strictly about orgasm denial, but they are wrong…
While that is the central point, these stories are highly sexual…
Leading to a climax that is as intense as that which the slave finally has - Male Chastity"

(By: Domina Amanda - continuing from - Femdom Stories) Like I was saying… for the most part, this girl was quiet, with a beautifully innocent manner to her… at least when she was in her chastity belt. But when that belt came off, and she was put in a sexual situation, the innocent reserve quickly gave way to the female sex slave, as she lost herself in whatever form of domination sex she was to be used for.
 
The longer she was held in orgasm denial, locked away in her chastity belt without any sexual release… the more intense and mindlessly driven she would be when finally given the chance to be fucked. The clash between the otherwise innocent, and almost shy appearance of the female slave, with the animalistic abandon she would lose herself to when being femdom fucked, just made her all the more hot and enjoyable. A non-sexual thing during her term of chastity belt enforced orgasm denial… transformed into a wet slut of a female sex slave when she was spread open for use.
 
I kept her for the better part of a year this way… the same chastity routine right along and her very happy with it. Sometimes I would intentionally skip the assessment at the end of the two week cycle or orgasm denial, saying nothing to her about it at all… leaving her silently wondering as I went on as if it were any other day. I would see the disappointment on her face and try to keep from smiling… but I would also see how much more aroused this silent denial would make her - her breathing would shift and she'd squirm at the slightest touch - and that just turned me on terribly ~laughs~. Maybe a day or two later I would unexpectedly take her chastity belt off of her and decide her fate right there… but more often I would have her go another two weeks in absolute orgasm denial, with nothing said about it at all.
 
This dominatrix / slave relationship went up until a female friend of mine who had many a time been involved in the "reward night" asked me if she could have her. That might sound odd to some of you but the whole lesbian domination crowd is its own thing, and since I thought they would make a beautiful pair I "sold" her then, passing ownership of her key. I know my sad eyed chastity slave was attracted to my friend… but I don't know if she wanted to be given to her. I didn't consider her thoughts in me leaving her. I didn't think about it either way, especially not back then (I looked at things somewhat differently at that time - I was quite young)… I enjoyed the relationship while I wanted it, and it was time for me to move on. I was pretty certain she would be happy where I sent her, but she was a property either way - a chastity slave, a female sex slave, just an object - and it wasn't her choice. (other Femdom Stories here)

Domina Amanda
Chastity Belt Phone Sex - 1-800-356-6169
 

"Even without the direct sexual contact, long term orgasm denial is exceptionally fun…
For the dominatrix sadist… and in reality, is highly sexually charged at all times…
One doesn’t need to being having sex or in a femdom session to enjoy such things…
Orgasm denial, while denying the slave sex, is very sexual - Femdom Stories"

"Male chastity, and the employment of devices such as the cock cage and chastity belt…
Are not just excellent means of sexual domination and manipulation…
Their use also builds up an intense need in the subject, and growing desperation…
That when finally exploited, feeds the femdom sadist wonderfully - Female Domination Sex"

(By: Domina Amanda - continuing from - Femdom Stories) I left off telling you about how I first met this lesbian chastity slave that I owned when I was a teenager, and her first taste of domination sex as my property.
 
So after that night in the BDSM club… first thing we did the next day was purchase a good quality metal chastity belt for her… something that would have a more solid and restricting feel to it than the leather one she had been wearing, and one that she could also have on for longer periods of time. I didn't know as many people in the femdom community back then as I do now, so it wasn’t a custom piece, but it fit her well and we both liked how it looked on her.
 
I would lock her in her chastity belt for two week cycles. Then remove it on a regular schedule so she could bathe herself and properly clean the device, but it would go back on again within a half hour of its removal. This pattern would continue until the two weeks were up, when I would take it off of her for a few hours that day. At this time I would assess her overall performance (not just in terms of chastity but as a female slave in general) and decide if she should be rewarded with sex.
 
If the answer was yes, then I might do something like take her to a lesbian bar on Houston we used to frequent, where we would meet some female friends… her being allowed to come and quietly serve us throughout the evening… all the while knowing what was in store for her at the end of the night - chastity belt left off through this, so she would feel exposed and vulnerable, and fully conscious of being "usable".
 
Later on we would all leave together, and the group of us would go home and take turns fucking her with our mouths, fingers, dildos, strapons, etc. We would literally pass that little chastity slut around… grabbing her by her hair, or pulling her by nipples, pussy, or a finger shoved deep inside her… forcing her face between each others legs, or backing her ass down onto a strapon. As innocent and quiet as she would normally be with her chastity belt on, she would let loose totally while we were all gang fucking her… a pure female sex slave, begging for more, and crawling around trying to find things to suck and fuck. Usually it would be a good four to six hours of lesbian domination sex, with her totally exhausted at the end (a female doesn't have to worry about "down time" ~laughs~).
 
After we were done with her, the chastity belt would go back on for another two week cycle… and she would be sent home after she had eaten every one of us to orgasm a last time (while I am telling femdom stories I should describe one of those nights in detail sometime, or maybe write a femdom audio in that vein ~grinz~. The only way to have sex is with a heavy dose of rough female domination).
 
If the answer to whether or not she could have sex was no, then I would either send her home with absolutely nothing… whip her and then send her home… or take her out with us anyway, only this time her chastity belt would stay on through the night, and she would have to perform for us all while getting absolutely nothing except a continuous face full of delicious wet pussy all night long… while her own soaking wet slit remained locked away, intentionally neglected. We'd slip our fingers down to tease her asshole for all too brief moments just to make the torture all the worse ~laughs~… and savage her nipples near constantly, but not enough to chance her cumming from it. One sided lesbian domination sex that would leave her squirming, with eyes full of need. (Femdom Stories - click to continue reading)

Domina Amanda
Male Chastity Phone Sex - 1-800-356-6169
 

"I remember a time I took this little chastity slave with me to a private femdom party…
She begged me to take her belt off so she could perform for those present…
I let her squat down on the tip of my friend’s black boot, pushing it into her pussy…
And then that female sex slave would ride it to orgasm in front of us all - Femdom Stories"

"Stop playing with yourself you flithy little pig, or I'll paddle your balls blue…

What you have down there isn't worth that much attention anyway.

Now hold still while I lock you in this cock cage… it's time you learned to control yourself…

And dominatrix enforced male chastity is the perfect lesson for you - Orgasm Denial" 

(By: Domina Amanda) Since I've been writing about chasity and long term orgasm denial recently, I decided to post an erotic audio based on that femdom theme to the Cock Control Forum - "Male Chastity & Key Holding". It's just a cock tease to get your balls going, but of course kept way short of orgasm since you won't be doing that anytime soon. Chronic masturbation is something to be punished, not rewarded… so orgasm denial is your proper fate.
 
Click - "This key would look perfect on a pretty little chain around my ankle… better hope I don't lose it"
 
Will it be a full chastity belt, a lovely cock cage to lock your dick away where it can't get into any trouble, or some other wonderfully fun chastity device that has recently caught my eye and I want to experiment with on you? Whatever I choose it will have a lock on it, a single key, and a single key holder - me. I'm not joking when I say you better hope I don't lose it. I'm not a clumsy person, or one prone to losing things, but I do have a way of throwing things away when they bore me or I just happen to feel like it. Imagine what it would be like having me lead you by a collar into a locksmith's shop, telling you to drop your pants so they can cut that chastity device off you… after I've of course stretched this term of orgasm denial to a point that your balls are so swollen, they look ready to burst. I wonder if you'll be so backed-up you'll get an erection when they cut the lock off… then we'll really laugh at you.
 
This male chastity erotic audio can be found in the public section of Cock Control Forum, so it's open to everyone who wants to listen. I have over two dozen more clips posted there currently, half of which are of a much more graphic nature, requiring they be put in the private forum (which requires registration to access - you only need a valid email address to do so). These other erotic audios include not only more orgasm denial clips, but many different female domination fetish themes, including femdom CBT scenes, small penis humiliation, and strapon domination, to name a few.
 
Domina Amanda
Male Chastity Belt Phone Sex - 1-800-356-6169
 

"Is your cheap, pathetic male slave ass looking for a dominatrix to talk to you…

but you're such a loser you can't afford a female domination phone sex call with her…

So damn typical… but you're in luck, we enjoy teasing shit like you with what you can't have…

Make sure to listen to the orgasm denial pieces… you obviously don't deserve to cum - Free Erotic Audio Clips"

"I enjoy telling femdom stories about naughty little sluts in need of punishment…
Eager assholes, spread wide and aching for deep femdom strapon attention…
Dirty boys who need a chastity belt to keep them from touching themselves all day…
And all the other wonderful options that present themselves for a dominatrix to enjoy - Female Domination"

(By: Domina Amanda - continuing from - Femdom Stories) I was telling you all about this beautiful young chastity slut I owned a few years ago… the one with such amazingly expressive eyes…
 
The chastity belt was actually her idea in the beginning. It was a fetish she'd explored before but she was looking for someone truly uncompromising who would set her into a very structured routine that would not be broken. As a lesbian submissive, she loved idea of female domination and sought out the more dedicated portions of the BDSM community… deciding to look for a dominatrix to submit to, one more seriously involved in femdom, and one not so much looking for a slave-girlfriend style relationship but something much closer to the sort of chastity slavery she hoped for.
 
The night we first met (NYC, at more of a femdom BDSM themed club than an actual placed dedicated to that - it was a nightclub with a goth-fetish-BDSM style atmosphere… not purely lesbian femdom, but more girl and gay friendly than open to the general public. A lot of my older femdom stories begin in places like this ~laughs~ I was never home at night), we were both immediately attracted to one another - me seeing her for the first time, but her having been interested in me for a few weeks already. When it was obvious that we were hitting it off, she asked me to come into a bathroom stall with her. There she pulled up the long skirt she was wearing and showed me the chastity belt she had on - a simple, comfortable leather one.
 
She looked me in the eyes - one of the only times she ever did such without command (this was that important to her and she very much wanted me to be the person she hoped I was) - and explained that she was looking for a controlling, dominant woman truly serious about female domination, who would be willing to take her on as a chastity slave… that she had seen me before, inquired with friends and sought me out with the hope of being able to offer herself to me if things felt right. She admitted to having been masturbating to the thought of me often during the past week, and had put her chastity belt on tonight just to make a proper introduction (even when not under the ownership of a key holder, she often wore a chastity belt - she loved the feel of them). But she promised not to fantasize about me anymore without permission, even if I rejected her (she loved masturbation as performance, especially in a femdom setting - she wanted to do it in front of others, to my commands… for me alone in whatever manner I desired, or on the floor in front of a group of people… these were her two favorite ways… and when she really got going, her pussy would start squirting when she came).
 
When she was done with her plea, she lowered her eyes and stood there quietly. I smiled… took her face in my hands… and kissed her very deeply. I then pushed her down on her knees… unzipped my jeans… pulled her face into my pussy… and had her bring me to orgasm right there. When she was done, I looked down at her and told her I would be her key holder, beginning this very moment… that we would be getting a new chastity belt for her that weekend… and that when it was on her I would explain the expectations of her new life with me as my slave. (Femdom Stories - click to continue reading)

Domina Amanda
Male Chastity Phone Sex - 1-800-356-6169
 

"In terms of femdom BDSM, I like playing with both men and women in many different ways…
The same holds true of having female domination sex with them… alone of in groups…
I also like to forced my slaves to have sex with one another… me as dominatrix director…
Chastity though, while I think it appropriate for all slaves, is a necessity for the male…
It’s a fundamental part of proper slave training that I regularly employ - Femdom Stories"

"I know you get turned on by femdom stories of lesbian domination…

You greedy slave boys enjoy a submissive slut being used by a ruthless dominatrix…

Almost as much as you love being under the heel of that cruel dominant female yourself.

And who knows, it's not like I don't enjoy corrupting a virgin through lesbian forced bi…

The look in her eyes as her first big cock hangs in front of her face…

And I order her to take it into her mouth, as I remove her chastity belt - Femdom Phone Sex"

(By: Domina Amanda) Femdom stories to tell… let's see… how about a chastity slave girl I owned for a while, back when I was 18…
 
The first time I ever played seriously with chastity in a femdom relationship sense, was when I was still a teenager, and it was with a girl who was just a couple years older than me… she was about 20 at the time. Tall, and slim… sort of gangly with long legs and curly chestnut brown hair that rolled down around her face over her shoulders. Very soft eyes… the kind that belong to someone who wants to be held in the complete control of another human being - gentle, easily hurt, full of the want to be found pleasing, a bit sad, but a very touching-beautiful for it. Quiet too… she spoke with her eyes and facial expressions more than anything… and she had this soft, endearing smile that held a shadow of sadness to it, or what gave that impression, even if she was completely happy.
 
She was so soft in so many ways… and pliable… that's probably the best way to describe her… very obedient and pliable. She knew how to do as she was told, without a moment of hesitation or question, regardless of the threat of any femdom punishment, chastity based or not (I loved spanking her… not only did her pussy get hot from it, but her expressions and noises would get me so damn wet). And when you'd pet her for doing good, this satisfaction would come over those big eyes and radiate from her… making you want to pet and hold her more.
 
She was lesbian… not bisexual at all… and felt most comfortable in very controlling relationships where as much of her life and schedule were dictated to her as possible. We didn't live together, but spent a good deal of time with each other… and when we were apart, the chastity belt I locked her in left her with no doubt as to who owned her (On a side note, I have to remember to tell some lesbian forced bi themed femdom stories in the future… girls that I've forced to be with men).
 
She wasn't the main person I was with at the time, which is part of why I didn't have her move in with me… she was just slave property whose company I enjoyed as such… and at this time I had begun my apprenticeship with the dominatrix I've mentioned here before, so that was the focus of my life then. I did at times I did bring her to work with me though - chastity belt on and proudly displayed of course ~grinz~. As it is, my recently begun femdom vocation was actually part of how this girl and I ended up involved - reputations carry fast in BDSM circles, and interest with them, or in other words, she heard about me, was intrigued, then saw me, and was caught ~laughs~. An obvious course of events often played out in my life - after all, I'm fucking hot, have an intense sexual appetite, and lesbian slave girls are oversexed sluts in general ~laughs~. (Femdom Stories - click to continue reading)

Domina Amanda
Male Chastity Phone Sex - 1-800-356-6169
 

"The kind of femdom stories I like to tell aren't pure fiction or fetish fantasy…

I'm an extrovert dominatrix with a hell of an ego ~laughs~, so I like to talk about myself…

And when I tell a story, it's taken from my own life… which trust me, is better than fiction - Femdom Stories"

"I love seeing a man stripped totally naked, left wearing only a chastity belt.

While the collar is a very obvious symbol of slavery and submission…

In its way, the chastity belt makes an equally strong statement, if not stronger - Orgasm Denial"

(Continuing from - Femdom Stories) I was last speaking of a male chastity slave I had when I was younger…
 
He was a man that had to be very confrontational, and very much in control in his life, particularly professionally. He was sexually submissive, and greatly aroused by female domination… but long term orgasm denial and the application of a chastity belt, changed his demeanor completely, even in the work setting. And this change was very noticeable to all around him, at times bordering on embarrassingly so (and I of course exploited this ~laughs~). The effect on his job is what really matters here, as things would grow uncomfortable for him around those he was supposed to manage, due to his inability to act in the dominant leader way he was expected to. He would sometimes beg me for release not in any sexual way, but just so he could feel more in control of himself at work, because he had trouble functioning on the level he needed to in order to succeed.
 
Now, in femdom stories like this, such behaviors aren't surprising… long term orgasm denial has this effect on pretty much all slaves to some degree, especially when coupled with a chastity belt - you just feel your slavery all the more in this condition and in an ever present way. But with him, it went to another level, and as days of orgasm denial turned into weeks, his submission seemed to almost crush him. He would become more and more deferential around everyone, to a point where people would inquire as to what had happened to him. And of course, as this deepened, I would intentionally set him up for abuse and male humiliation at work and elsewhere.
 
When I would decide to finally release him from his term of orgasm denial, I would usually go to his job dressed in a very classy, slightly severe style that hinted strongly at fetish and dominatrix… unlock his chastity belt, make him drop his pants and cum all over his desk. He would then have to lick it up, and I would walk out of his office with the chastity belt in hand for all to see.
 
If he had done anything at all to piss me off, or if I just felt like it… I would show up at his job and make him follow me out of his office, head down, to the male bathrooms - chastity belt removed and carried by me like before. There he would have to kneel down in a stall and jerk off with me standing behind him, stall door open. When he was ready to orgasm he would have to beg me for release, which I didn't always give. If allowed, he would cum all over the toilet seat and have to lick it all up. If any went on the floor or in the water, that got sucked up too.
 
Often he would become desperate before a particularly important business meeting… which would result in a trip to the bathrooms as described above. If I felt his term of orgasm denial had not been long enough, but his request for release from the chastity belt necessary due to the degree of importance of the meeting (he had others in his department dependent upon him for the jobs), then his cum would all be shot into the bowl after I had pissed in it… followed by his head as he made sure none of his load got flushed. For extra fun I'd bring a stopwatch and give him a limited amount of time to suck up and swallow all the cum floating in the piss water toilet bowl… if time ran out the chastity belt went back on and he would be out of luck for the meeting.

Domina Amanda
Femdom Stories Phone Sex - 1-800-356-6169
 

"Hundreds of long audio sex stories written and performed by…

hot young dominant women whose sex lives are everything you dream of.

Tales of femdom BDSM, male chastity punishment, long term orgasm denial, and…

Every other form of female domination you can imagine - Femdom Stories"

"My life experiences present a wide variety of femdom stories…

encompassing themes that cross the lengths of BDSM and female domination.

As an exhibitionist, my enjoyment of public displays isn't limited to the visual…

I also very much enjoy speaking openly of things I have done - Femdom Stories

(Continuing…) To me, chastity play in the femdom setting is the gift that keeps on giving - giving me enjoyment that is, while the guy gets a whopping dose of nothing in a most absolute way ~laughs~ (well, the selfishly sadistic side of me sometimes likes to think of it that way ~winks~, but as we all know, it's not really "nothing" since those truly into this fetish love the emotional and physical effects of long term orgasm denial). And when I finally do give him the chance for a lil' sumthin' sumthin', his pathetic desperation to be found pleasing in every way possible is so very beautiful to behold, as is how overwhelming that long denied orgasm is when I finally let him have it… if I don't suddenly change my mind.
 
I have said that I think strapons look beautiful on women and I love to wear mine as often as I can (and in past femdom stories and audio clips I think I've made this love very clear ~laughs~)… but to me, the chastity belt is the male counterpart of the female cock harness. It's the perfect accessory to any male possession. Not only does a chastity belt make that sloppy cock and balls look so much more tidy and cute… it also serves as a constant, physical reminder to the wearer that what he has between his legs belongs to someone else… that the female holds the dominant role in all sexual decisions… that male sexual fulfillment is dependent upon the mood of the female… and that his sexuality only exists to please women, even if the given woman decides that the greatest enjoyment is to be found in denying his sexuality completely (the same holds for all chastity devices in their own way).
 
Femdom Stories - Big Shot NYC Businessman & Male Chastity Slave…
 
I had an orgasm denial slave for some time, back when I was 19… he was close to fifty when I met him, and very well established within the business community of NYC. He could be bratty at times, which I corrected quickly by showing him I wouldn't hesitate to slap him hard across the face regardless of where we were at the time (he had never met anything like me before, dominatrix or not). But when a chastity belt was placed on him, he immediately became very docile… a condition that only deepened the longer the orgasm denial lasted.
 
Without the chastity belt he was obedient… he just liked to challenge and push limits, which just about always annoys me (and that's why I would stomp on such behavior the instant the hint of it appeared in him - he learned his lesson fast, especially when I appeared at his job unannounced, walked directly to him, backhanded him twice very hard, and then left… saying only that I could return at any time and do far worse - the look on the faces of his secretaries at the time were especially fantastic ~laughs~, hopefully I sparked the possibility of female domination in some of their minds. Good thing he was head of his department else I probably would have gotten him fired ~grinz~). But the chastity belt was almost intoxicating to him… it had a profound effect on his personality, literally changing him, not just making him more docile around me, but docile in general. (continued in - Femdom Stories)
 

Domina Amanda 
Orgasm Denial Phone Sex - 1-800-356-6169
 

"My client wanted male slave stock of a particular form… and you fit her specifications.

When ready, I'm to deliver you to her, broken and ready for further training as her servant.

The chastity belt, used in conjunction with orgasm denial, confinement and the whip…

will insure she doesn't wait long, and that my price for you is soon paid - Femdom Stories in Chastity Hell"

"The ruined orgasm is a perfect way to deal with a chronic masturbator.

Instead of simply locking him in a chastity belt for long term orgasm denial…

The dominatrix blends this with regular ruined masturbation and harsh CBT…

In time, all but the most masochistic, will rethink their filthy habit - Femdom CBT"

(Continuing…) Sexual fulfillment, especially after a long term of orgasm denial, also greatly strengthens the bond between key holder and chastity slave. The slave looks to his owner as the single source of refusal and relief… she holding his release or torment in her hands alone. When orgasm is finally allowed it's not just sexually gratifying, but something to be greatly thankful for - "she gave this to me"… "it was her choice to allow" - strong statements in female domination. An obvious dependency grows in the slave as a result… one that a skilled dominatrix will manipulate both for the benefit of her ownership, and even the enjoyment of the chastity slave she holds under her will, if she so chooses.
 
A ruined orgasm can also be a nasty tool when used in conjunction with long term chastity… taking the idea of building up anticipation that leads only to disappointment and continuation of orgasm denial, to an even more intense level due to the sudden reversal occurring at the very point where the longed for release actually begins. This tactic can be done to both the male and female slave, simply by creating a situation during a femdom session where the slave's fulfillment at that moment seems a sure thing… something not only that they want, but you also appear to be very much looking forward to… and then, at the exact moment of orgasm, things are brought to an abrupt end, just as they begin to cum (the very instant it begins, all stimulation is ended). The end result is something of a half climax that totally misses what was hoped for in terms of release… which can be worse than never having had the chance to do anything at all. The ruined orgasm is a cruel but very effective tactic when a serious lesson in female domination needs to be learned… or when the key holder just wants to enjoy being cruel for its own sake (this is also excellent for femdom humiliation sessions).
 
When a ruined orgasm is intentionally done after a particularly extended term of orgasm denial, the end result is extremely frustrating for the chastity slave, and also somewhat painful, since the long inactive genitalia has been excited to the point of needed release and then shut down yet again (this is much worse for the male slave than the female… and when coupled with a brutal femdom CBT session, can leave him inactive for hours afterwards). It's an excellent method of punishment that I recommend to any dominatrix seeking to correct a chastity slave who has begun to enjoy his torment too much. Likewise, I think all key holders should do this to any long term orgasm denial slave they have at least once, as a clear statement of ownership to your property… much like how a slave should be whipped every so often, for no reason other than not forgetting what the lash feels like and who wields it. (continued…)
 

Domina Amanda
Male Chastity Phone Sex - 1-800-356-6169
 
Note - CBT means Cock and Ball Torture
 

"There are many devious little games I like to play on my chastity slaves…

One is a tease and denial game where I spend all of my time with them…

Dressed in nothing but my hottest fetish outfits… teasing them the whole time…

Intentionally toying with them, just so I can enjoy their discomfort - Male Chastity"

"Long term orgasm denial opens up wonderful opportunties for…

The most devious kinds of sexual domination, especially when targeting the male slave.

A man's sexuality is already easily controlled by a woman…

But when a denial dominatrix takes control… things get much more interesting - Male Chastity"

(Continuing…) It's obvious that this fetish - chastity and long term orgasm denial - is an exceptional means of discipline and conditioning, one that can be enjoyed for its own sake, and employed very successfully in the training of a slave. Controlling another person's sexuality is a glaring example of domination and submission, one I enjoy taking to near tyrannical levels ~laughs~. I can be a cold, ruthless bitch when I have someone so helplessly in my hands, I love to see them squirm and beg, and I especially love building up hope and excitement in their eyes, only to smash it down with barely a word as I send them away ~smiles so evil~… the pleasures of female domination are near limitless in their potential for my enjoyment.
 
Denial like this may seem cruel to outsiders (and when it's meant to be, as in chastity belt punishment, that's exactly what it is), but in reality long term orgasm denial and sexual domination in this form is actually something very exciting to those who truly enjoy chastity as a fetish. The "not knowing" builds anticipation greatly, acting as a very powerful form of foreplay that when finally fulfilled, leads to a release that is intensely gratifying… more than just physically pleasurable, but also emotionally. Unexpected orgasm denial after teasing, or complete denial of expected sexual activity, keeps the person in that limbo state of not knowing, since fulfillment isn't something that can be looked forward to with any sort of scheduled certainty. Anticipation thus becomes riddled with doubt due to the very real possibility of disappointment (even though this sort of "disappointment" isn't really that in the common definition of the word to someone who is deeply into chastity - the disappointment is deeply enjoyed in its way too).
 
When the chastity slave can get into a routine of expected wait time leading to sure fulfillment - a schedule he can rely on - so much of the edge and intensity that could be had with long term orgasm denial is lost. The dependence is less on the key holder, than on the schedule, and since the slave can focus on the set day of reward, the days he must go without don't weigh as heavily.
 
Think of an addict who decides he is going to "prove he isn't addicted" by going a set amount of time without what he is addicted to. The fact that he knows what he wants is waiting for him at the end of the set time period makes things much easier because he knows its waiting there for him - he still holds some form of control over events. Take that end point away, and everything shifts drastically, as you leave him with no control over what is happening - the rules and conditions are no longer set, he is dependent totally on the decisions of another person, not the calendar.
 
When nothing can be counted on, excepting the will of their owner, the chastity slave quickly learns that their expectations, and more importantly, their wants, could come to nothing very easily… that such isn't important and the only deciding factor is the will of the key holder. The end result is a very strong sense of helplessness, that impresses their submission on them very heavily… which for the masochist, is only arousing and desirable. Denial of the hoped for reward hits heavily… but when the reward is finally given it's all the more appreciated and thus all the more enjoyed - through chastity and long term orgasm denial, the dominatrix wields the power of both pain and pleasure, refusal and reward, becoming all the more the center of the slave's world. Female domination is ultimately linked to sexuality, and chastity is sexual manipulation and control of a very direct form… even when the key holder is no where in sight. (continued…)

Domina Amanda

Orgasm Denial Phone Sex - 1-800-356-6169
 

"Being the inferior sex, men don't think with their brains…

They think with their cocks… and down there, size sadly does not reflect intelligence.

Chastity thus is not only cock control, but direct control of the puny male brain…

Lack of orgasm makes a man think more clearly and obey all the faster.

Clearly this is an excellent tool in the imposition of - Female Domination"