(By: Domina Amanda) There's a big difference between sexual domination and lifestyle male slavery. When done exclusive of lifestyle, the first case is a limited act principally intended for sex play - something enjoyed primarily as a sexual experience with underlying emotional satisfaction gained from the moment's submission. The second is an ongoing condition existing far beyond any form of intercourse and what directly surrounds it, encompassing all that is the life of the slave - it's not something you do when the mood takes you, but something you are completely. Sexual domination is part of lifestyle male slavery, but while that portion is focused on sexuality, lifestyle slavery isn't defined by or dependent upon sexual practices - such are only a facet of the whole. Lifestyle slavery is defined by the consistent act of submission displayed in the slave's devotion to his owner.
 
Lifestyle male slavery, as with lifestyle female domination, is motivated by deeper instinctual impulses within the slave - the want to be owned… to relinquish responsibility… to be under the will of a dominant female… to answer to her and be directed by her in life… and more. Fulfillment for the slave is found in embracing that want to be owned, and in the displays of devotion he gives the dominant female he belongs to. Sex may be incredible, but what he wants most is to be found pleasing by her, and in that he is most pleased.
 
Sexual domination is more momentary or limited in form, revolving around one's sexuality and often the act itself (though actual intercourse or sexual contact need not occur - for example, chastity and orgasm denial can be just as effective and fulfilling an experience. Chastity is still sexual domination both because the sexuality of the male slave is under the tangible control of the female owner, and because even though no sex is occurring, the negation of what is commonly seen as fulfillment is itself fulfilling to the alternative sexual tastes of the true chastity slave). It is a fetish that often incorporates other related fetish tastes - such as bondage sex - to make the feelings of submission and helplessness appear more real. When exclusive of lifestyle it's more dependent upon fetish props and stylized attitudes to help shift the participants from the reality of their "normal" lives into the respective domination and submission roles of their fantasy. It is fetish play that's fulfilling within the limits it intentionally holds to.
 
Lifestyle male slavery is all of life and the totality of self… at least for those claiming the word "slave" in a sense that's more than just a limited fulfillment of a kink. It's something that one must give himself up to completely in order to truly experience what it is - devotion in this way both to one's female owner, and what's claimed to be the desires of the slave's own soul. What is said to be the "freedom" that can be found within male slavery.
 
While sexual domination is thrilling and highly enjoyable… the deeper enjoyment of total female domination - of slavery as a lifestyle - is obviously so much more. It takes the more limited enjoyment of sexual submission to another level, while immersing the slave in his heart's desire, bringing greater fulfillment to more than just sex acts, but to every moment of his life. The feeling of being "lost" that many unfulfilled male slaves suffer, is taken away when one finds his slavery through his female owner.
 
The deeper one gives himself to his desire to be a male slave, the deeper the emotions and sexual impulses associated with those desires are felt. The more the "risk" - that of leaving known life for a life of total submission - the greater the thrill. The more one is subject to the will of another - the loss of control and self-determination, the giving of your life to a beautiful, powerful female and her domination of you - the deeper the submission and more encompassing the fulfillment of what the soul most seeks… and all of it in ways far beyond any orgasm that merely playing at sexual domination might produce.
 
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