"The ruined orgasm is a perfect way to deal with a chronic masturbator.

Instead of simply locking him in a chastity belt for long term orgasm denial…

The dominatrix blends this with regular ruined masturbation and harsh CBT…

In time, all but the most masochistic, will rethink their filthy habit - Femdom CBT"

 

 

(Continuing…) Sexual fulfillment, especially after a long term of orgasm denial, also greatly strengthens the bond between key holder and chastity slave. The slave looks to his owner as the single source of refusal and relief… she holding his release or torment in her hands alone. When orgasm is finally allowed it's not just sexually gratifying, but something to be greatly thankful for - "she gave this to me"… "it was her choice to allow" - strong statements in female domination. An obvious dependency grows in the slave as a result… one that a skilled dominatrix will manipulate both for the benefit of her ownership, and even the enjoyment of the chastity slave she holds under her will, if she so chooses.
 
A ruined orgasm can also be a nasty tool when used in conjunction with long term chastity… taking the idea of building up anticipation that leads only to disappointment and continuation of orgasm denial, to an even more intense level due to the sudden reversal occurring at the very point where the longed for release actually begins. This tactic can be done to both the male and female slave, simply by creating a situation during a femdom session where the slave's fulfillment at that moment seems a sure thing… something not only that they want, but you also appear to be very much looking forward to… and then, at the exact moment of orgasm, things are brought to an abrupt end, just as they begin to cum (the very instant it begins, all stimulation is ended). The end result is something of a half climax that totally misses what was hoped for in terms of release… which can be worse than never having had the chance to do anything at all. The ruined orgasm is a cruel but very effective tactic when a serious lesson in female domination needs to be learned… or when the key holder just wants to enjoy being cruel for its own sake (this is also excellent for femdom humiliation sessions).
 
When a ruined orgasm is intentionally done after a particularly extended term of orgasm denial, the end result is extremely frustrating for the chastity slave, and also somewhat painful, since the long inactive genitalia has been excited to the point of needed release and then shut down yet again (this is much worse for the male slave than the female… and when coupled with a brutal femdom CBT session, can leave him inactive for hours afterwards). It's an excellent method of punishment that I recommend to any dominatrix seeking to correct a chastity slave who has begun to enjoy his torment too much. Likewise, I think all key holders should do this to any long term orgasm denial slave they have at least once, as a clear statement of ownership to your property… much like how a slave should be whipped every so often, for no reason other than not forgetting what the lash feels like and who wields it. (continued…)
 

Domina Amanda
Male Chastity Phone Sex - 1-800-356-6169
 
Note - CBT means Cock and Ball Torture
 

 

"There are many devious little games I like to play on my chastity slaves…

One is a tease and denial game where I spend all of my time with them…

Dressed in nothing but my hottest fetish outfits… teasing them the whole time…

Intentionally toying with them, just so I can enjoy their discomfort - Male Chastity"

 

I love CBT Ballbusting


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