"Long term orgasm denial opens up wonderful opportunties for…

The most devious kinds of sexual domination, especially when targeting the male slave.

A man's sexuality is already easily controlled by a woman…

But when a denial dominatrix takes control… things get much more interesting - Male Chastity"

(Continuing…) It's obvious that this fetish - chastity and long term orgasm denial - is an exceptional means of discipline and conditioning, one that can be enjoyed for its own sake, and employed very successfully in the training of a slave. Controlling another person's sexuality is a glaring example of domination and submission, one I enjoy taking to near tyrannical levels ~laughs~. I can be a cold, ruthless bitch when I have someone so helplessly in my hands, I love to see them squirm and beg, and I especially love building up hope and excitement in their eyes, only to smash it down with barely a word as I send them away ~smiles so evil~… the pleasures of female domination are near limitless in their potential for my enjoyment.
 
Denial like this may seem cruel to outsiders (and when it's meant to be, as in chastity belt punishment, that's exactly what it is), but in reality long term orgasm denial and sexual domination in this form is actually something very exciting to those who truly enjoy chastity as a fetish. The "not knowing" builds anticipation greatly, acting as a very powerful form of foreplay that when finally fulfilled, leads to a release that is intensely gratifying… more than just physically pleasurable, but also emotionally. Unexpected orgasm denial after teasing, or complete denial of expected sexual activity, keeps the person in that limbo state of not knowing, since fulfillment isn't something that can be looked forward to with any sort of scheduled certainty. Anticipation thus becomes riddled with doubt due to the very real possibility of disappointment (even though this sort of "disappointment" isn't really that in the common definition of the word to someone who is deeply into chastity - the disappointment is deeply enjoyed in its way too).
 
When the chastity slave can get into a routine of expected wait time leading to sure fulfillment - a schedule he can rely on - so much of the edge and intensity that could be had with long term orgasm denial is lost. The dependence is less on the key holder, than on the schedule, and since the slave can focus on the set day of reward, the days he must go without don't weigh as heavily.
 
Think of an addict who decides he is going to "prove he isn't addicted" by going a set amount of time without what he is addicted to. The fact that he knows what he wants is waiting for him at the end of the set time period makes things much easier because he knows its waiting there for him - he still holds some form of control over events. Take that end point away, and everything shifts drastically, as you leave him with no control over what is happening - the rules and conditions are no longer set, he is dependent totally on the decisions of another person, not the calendar.
 
When nothing can be counted on, excepting the will of their owner, the chastity slave quickly learns that their expectations, and more importantly, their wants, could come to nothing very easily… that such isn't important and the only deciding factor is the will of the key holder. The end result is a very strong sense of helplessness, that impresses their submission on them very heavily… which for the masochist, is only arousing and desirable. Denial of the hoped for reward hits heavily… but when the reward is finally given it's all the more appreciated and thus all the more enjoyed - through chastity and long term orgasm denial, the dominatrix wields the power of both pain and pleasure, refusal and reward, becoming all the more the center of the slave's world. Female domination is ultimately linked to sexuality, and chastity is sexual manipulation and control of a very direct form… even when the key holder is no where in sight. (continued…)

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"Being the inferior sex, men don't think with their brains…

They think with their cocks… and down there, size sadly does not reflect intelligence.

Chastity thus is not only cock control, but direct control of the puny male brain…

Lack of orgasm makes a man think more clearly and obey all the faster.

Clearly this is an excellent tool in the imposition of - Female Domination"