"Long term orgasm denial is the proper condition for the male…

Men are led by their sexuality, and thus their sex drive is the perfect means to control them…

But when not kept under strict control by female domination…

Men become quite annoying in their piggish behaviors - Male Chastity"

I've been into chastity domination (as I call it ~grinz~) since I was a teenager. I'd say the foundations of it were in the standard routine of cute flirting, playful teasing, bitchy denying and all that - leading guys and other girls on in that way a devilish little female loves to do when she's young and extra selfish. I guess you could say your standard pussy and cock tease at first, but it progressed quickly into more - hooking up with people, making it seem like much more was to come, then abruptly saying "no" and leaving as if something "wrong" happened… sometimes to spread nasty rumors the next day about how he has such a pathetically small penis… or how badly she needs to trim that sloppy thing… ~laughs~ - simpler times full of fond memories. Not chastity yet, but hints towards that direction in the sense of manipulation and control.
 
When I started getting into true relationships, I fast learned how much I enjoyed controlling my partner's sexuality. It started off on its own - me simply being the nasty control bitch that I am. I was a tyrant of female domination when it came to sex - demanding and having when I wanted it, or rejecting with disinterest when I didn’t… but worse… at times when I did want it, I would intentionally say "no" at the last moment, just because I enjoyed the effect on the other person and how it deepened my domination of them… and helped me quickly pull the submission out of them, which I continuously tightened with each staged event. Once the claws got in, I was dictating everything when it came to sex… not just when we would, but how and who else they would be with if I wanted that (or if I ordered them to be with another - the lesbian domination scene is so damn slutty ~laughs~. With the few boys I kept back then I was much more selfish, after all, most would have loved being passed around so that was a big, nope ~grinz~)… right down to if they could masturbate or even look at other people. Long term orgasm denial but also much more than that because the control wasn't just sexual. I still hadn't actually come to recognize an inclination towards chastity in any defined fetish sense, and it wasn't fully developed in that way, but I was fast getting there.
 
This path of sexual domination, or in my case, sexual dictatorship ~laughs~, naturally developed into more structured routines - schedules and situations calculated for effect - me enjoying more absolute forms of orgasm control, often crushingly sudden in denial and rejection, and just as unexpected in allowing complete fulfillment. And as soon as I became aware of the true extent of the possibilities afforded us by enterprising minds - the employment of things like the chastity belt in all its myriad forms, chastity cages, and female piercings used to these same ends, came into the picture. By this time I had gone so deep into things that what I was and what I was doing was undeniable, and as a form of orgasm denial fetish was properly termed exactly what it had grown to be - chastity play… or again, in my case, more accurately called chastity domination, since "play" just sounds too cute and sweet for me ~smiles~. (continued…)
 

Domina Amanda

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"Tease and denial brings with it the hint of a happy ending…

But for me… there's always a happy ending, because things always end as I desire…

So when the slave is sexually tormented to a point he or she can no longer handle…

and I end things right there, the end is happy… for the person who matters… me - Orgasm Denial"

1. Greg, April 30, 2008:

   You are an extremely interesting and sexy woman, Domina. I have no doubt the “dangerous” I’ve read describing you is true, but in a very hot and tempting way.
   Greg