"My life and experiences in BDSM and female domination…
has left me with so many very interesting femdom stories to tell…
Stories of bondage, sadism, sexual humiliation, and domination sex - CFNM Femdom"
As I was saying, the biggest difficulty in writing something "about" yourself in this context, is that people make the error of assuming that if you mention a sexual fetish directly, that must mean that you are "totally into" that one thing, along with all it encompasses in whatever way the given reader personally views the topic… and that if you don't mention some other fetish directly, then that must mean you "hate it and want nothing to do with it". Both extremes are ridiculous assumptions that disregard how complex human beings and their personal motivations are. The same holds true with one's style regarding a fetish, and how people assume you must "always" proceed (I think that due to the medium, these assumptions get even more narrow with female domination phone sex).
As I said months ago, it's impossible for anyone to fully define themselves - all they are, and all they do. And in the attempt to make any sort of personal presentation, the standard dilemma arises - the less you write the more things can be assumed… while the more you write, the more new questions and assumptions are raised even as you answer the prior existing ones. It would be fine if the assumptions follow the right direction, but usually assumptions are influenced as much by the readers own desires as they are the writer's actual thoughts, if not even more so. So the best one can do is to speak honestly, giving the reader a clue as to the personality behind the writer, and from there open the door to future discussion with those who may be like-minded or at least intrigued.
What I have set out to do more than anything here, is demonstrate my own confidence in speaking about myself, and my pride in who I am - a lifestyle and professional dominatrix deeply interested and involved in femdom BDSM. Everyone has something to hide, but when it comes to my personality and lifestyle I don’t feel I have anything to be ashamed of. Like everyone I have made mistakes, but I don't look at those things with embarrassment, I instead see them as a vital part of a process of learning that has developed me into the person I am today. And when it comes to my sexual practices and outlook on life in general, I don't believe I should feel any guilt over enjoying myself, so long as my behaviors are responsible and safe, which they always are… so why not speak of them with pride.
Many of you that are reading this are obviously doing so to get a feel for the type of person I am - and that is exactly the point. Specific questions you may have are always better discussed than left to answers assumed. That being true, I will allow anyone who has read this to contact me if there is something they are wondering about, particularly if they are interested in calling me for female domination phone sex sessions, but are somehow unsure about our compatibility. This is perfectly reasonable and I would much rather that, than have confusion rob someone of the chance to entertain me ~grinz~.
When I started writing the "About Me" essays, I had intended to do about a dozen and change… but I also intended to just write whatever came to mind and let things run from there… literally letting the essays write themselves, allowing one to open the door to the next. While I plan to continue to write openly about myself and my opinions, I don't plan on titling any more essays with the ubiquitous "About Me". It suited a purpose, but when you have forty essays with that as part of the tile, it gets a bit clumsy and awkward for search engines and general titling.
So this essay you are reading now is going to stand as something of a conclusion, not to me writing about myself, but me organizing future essays in such a way.
I have many more things written or started already… a series of pieces on chastity for example, along with a number of femdom stories. Some of these stories also have to do with chastity, but others are expansions on things I've mentioned in the past. Avid readers will remember many a passage where I told a brief summary of some event in my life, and said someday I would expand on it in greater detail… well, it's those femdom stories of forced strapon training, extreme bondage, small penis humiliation, female domination sex and lots more, that I will be getting around to now. Also, of course, more of my recent experiences with callers during domination phone sex sessions… since you bastards are so damn entertaining ~laughs~.
Terminus Est…
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"The Dark Seductress of bondage and female domination…
Addiction… obsession… she is the dangerously beautiful Demoness…
It's no surprise so many crawl to her… and her attention is in such high demand - Domina Amanda"
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The About Domina Amanda series was excellent. It took time but over the weeks since I first met you I did read them all. I understand your reasons for shifting direction, and while you’ll still be writing the same kind of things, the old format grew so much it came to be expected. Now that its gone it feels like a good book that you finished but want more. I look forward to reading your femdom stories. Thank you again.
Very impressive series of personal essays, Domina. I have not had time to read them all yet, but the dozen I perused this morning were very interesting. I would love to know more about you and your life, and I will continue working my way through the rest of the series as soon as I can.
I found your site off a search for “Domination Sex”. I didn’t come looking for phone sex but you have caught my interest. I look forward to these femdom stories you mention. I did see another website with your name on it that seems to be yours, but have not gotten to it yet. So much already on my plate to read here.
Enjoying it, and thank you
Greg