"I am a dominant female… a lifestyle dominatrix…

and it is that dominance that is the constant in all things for me…

My sexual choices don't define who I am… who I am directs my sexual choices - Female Domination"

Throughout all of the essays I've written here, particularly those contributing to the "About Domina Amanda" series, I've talked greatly about myself, my views on life and female domination, and my sexual interests and activity within both the greater BDSM community and domination phone sex.
 
I've intentionally avoided the common practice of actually listing and categorizing all of the different sexual activities I enjoy in a single promotional essay. I've been involved in BDSM so deeply since I was too young to say, that my interests are far too varied for that. Simply running off titles of things you like, never really gives a clear view into how or why you do. Besides, attempts at fully listing things fetish by fetish comes off weird to me. It ends up looking more like a menu or checklist, and never fully does justice to the person's true sexuality.
 
Commonly, domination phone sex operators work within the confines of a set character type - they have specific things they do, in a specific way. This makes things simple - you want that, you go here - done. You can look at each one and say "she is this, she does that and it's done this way" - things boxed up nice and simple so you know what you are going to get.
 
That's not the case with me, nor is it with most human beings.
 
While I have tried to give an impression as to who I am and what to expect if you contact me… I've written as much as I have here to make it clear that I am not a single fetish and form. I am a lifestyle dominatrix… not just someone involved professionally in a scene with "dominatrix" being a title of profession, but someone whose lifestyle is in many ways best summed up by that same word - a strong female possessing a dominant personality and all of the natural superiority of her sex. While I do own slaves, do wear fetish clothing, do enjoy bondage and sadism, my sexual practices don’t define who I am… who I am directs my sexual choices, along with all other choices I make in life.
 
My involvement in female domination, BDSM, male sexual humiliation, domination phone sex, and everything related that you can think of runs much deeper than occupation or advertisement… or for that matter, hobby. As a result, my sexual interests are greatly varied as is my approach to them, but also, the level of experience I have in them means that how I choose to enjoy myself greatly varies with each situation and person.
 
No human being likes to do things the same way every time. Sure we all have general preferences that remain a constant, but some days we like our food hot and spicy… while other days we may like it a little more tame, yet still rich and flavorful. That's one of the things I always find interesting about people approaching a dominatrix… like I said earlier, they think you are some sort of one-dimensional creature… an assumption that doesn't really fit the "female superiority" that the same people so hope for when they cry submission ~laughs~.
 
Example - while I do very much like heavier, physical forms of female domination and BDSM, I also like more subtle femdom forms, even gentle methods of control and manipulation. I am a dominant female, and it is that dominance that is the constant in all things for me. How it is exhibited varies greatly in response to the situation and my mood, but since it's a fundamental part of my personality, it influences all that I am and directs the course I take in whatever I do and enjoy. I don't put limits on the possibilities after that, so long as they are consistent with who I am and what I believe. What matters is my enjoyment, my getting what I want, and there are many ways this can happen… just as there are many ways I can enforce my superiority over others. Female domination isn't a "style" or "role", it's the condition of having power over others… and the true dominant knows many paths towards this goal. (continued)  
 

Domina Amanda

Female Domination Phone Sex 1-800-356-6169
 

Continued in Part XLI - Domina Amanda
 

"Men like to deny the natural superiority of the female…

and try to claim that male domination is the rule, and female domination the exception…

and yet the instant a cock gets hard… all of these claims fail before reality - Tease and Denial"