"The dark seductress awaits you…
…will you crawl to this beautiful, dominatrix and offer yourself to her…
or be dragged in bondage before her to feel her whip? - Female Domination"
So where does domination phone sex fit in here?
First off… as you may have noticed, I don't really like to call it simply "Phone Sex". Yes, that is the proper, generic expression, and maybe I'm being overly critical in a way, but to me "Phone Sex" brings to mind the common expectations of a writhing woman fucking or sucking or whatever. That's not me or what I do. I prefer to call this what it really is - Domination Phone Sex, or Femdom Phone Sex, or… you get the idea. One might say I'm being picky but actually I'm just being clear in both my descriptions and intentions.
Much of what I talk about on the phone I have done in some way in real life, which is the main reason why I got involved with domination phone sex in the first place - it's a reflection of my actual tendencies and a further way for me to enjoy them. I can't say that the conversations I have always revolve around scenarios I personally would have thought up, but even those that are truly warped can still be fun because I have a twisted sense of humor and deeply enjoy perversion. That's why I shock many I speak to (though the shock is a welcome one ~grinz~). It's not just that I have a high tolerance for depravity, but it's also that I can speak about things to a degree and depth most can't. The reason - because much of what I talk about I really have done face-to-face with other people. My experiences are founded in actual life events, not my imagination… particularly when it comes to female domination sex and BDSM in general.
All of the phone calls I do, I hope to enjoy (or at the very least be amused by) and what I do in them stays true to my personality. Some are scenarios I would already do in real life (and often already have), or things I might try if the chance presented itself. Others are things that might be unrealistic or impossible, but here domination phone sex shows its worth in another way - you can let your inhibitions go, and just explore and enjoy in ways you really couldn't otherwise.
Sure there are also fantasies that can be pretty twisted ~laughs~ but those are usually just so crazy that I get a rush off the near sexual insanity of them, and so they are worth it in another way. I like a lot of things, and I am damn open minded… and I don't see extremes so much as limits, but as a dangerous and exciting edge to balance on.
What I don't get involved with are calls that are in conflict with who I am, or require me to engage in behaviors or roles that insult my integrity as a woman. It's called domination phone sex for a reason… the title should give most a clue as to what is planned. For example, I don't take "fuck and suck" calls - if a guy wants me to suck his dick, it ain't gonna happen. He gets sent back to the dispatcher. Nothing wrong with what he wants, it's just not what I do. Same holds true for anything underage, regardless of who is in the dominant position, along with any scenarios that place me in the role of victim. It's called domination phone sex because it's about female domination of the submission seeking caller… and I am the female doing the dominating. (continued…)
Femdom Phone Sex - 1-800-356-6169
Continued in Part XXXIX - Female Domination Sex
"You will learn what true submission is…
under the stiletto heeled leather boot of a lifestyle dominatrix…
who will thoroughly use you - Femdom Phone Sex"
Any girl can do a fuck and suck phone sex call. Its the rare woman that can do a true domination phone sex session. Many play at female domination but only that elite few really live up to what dominatrix means. Femdom calls with a real dominant woman are so much better than with the pretenders. And its so easy to tell the difference. Phone domination can’t be played at in any really satisfying way by someone who isnt a true domme - you already lose something by it being on the phone to begin with. If the woman is a fake then it falls totally flat. Only true domination brings true submission and the fuller degree of sexual excitement that comes with it. A real dominatrix can impose her will anywhere.