"So the idea of being a male sex slave excites, does it?

What makes you think any dominatrix would want you as a sex slave, and not a servant?

Prove your submission and perhaps you will be found worthy of more…

The deeper the slavery, the more attractive the male becomes - Domination Phone Sex"

So far… we were talking of true dominant personalities, as compared to those who aspire to domination… and then, this in relation to people's proper place in the world, be it the control and leadership they dream of (and the rare few deserve), or the position of "follower" that for the majority is more often their rightful lot in life. Now in terms of sexual submission, things can get clouded. Here we are speaking of a more specific part of one's life and the circumstances surrounding it - individual sexuality - but also, while the individual's sexual motivations often do fit the overall way he carries himself in life, there can be observable contradiction between what he does in the bedroom and the boardroom.
 
Here we see two basic groupings… those for whom submission is a way of life - something that governs all that they are and do (and I don't necessarily mean people who live 24/7 D/s, I mean those who naturally take a more passive position, regardless of conscious choice or not - for them this isn't strictly sexual, it's what is most comfortable to them)… and those that desire to be dominated by another for a limited time when engaging in sexual activities, but may not appear to take submissive roles otherwise. Sexually, both cases share a primary motivation - sexual submission feels both natural and exciting to them (there are many more motivations than this, some shared, some not, and some given to the individual). And for someone to find this exciting, that person has to already have an inclination towards general submission to some degree.
 
Now, there are those who just won't like that comment, because they want their cake and eat it too. But when talking in the greater sense, truly dominant personalities don't find submission of any form appetizing or at all desirable (submission being different to deference - a dominant personality may defer to the will of another in a given situation, particularly is that deference is beneficial to one's own interests or chosen cause). They seek control, while those tending towards submission seek to give it up… in each case, the respective inclination reflects what the person is drawn to, and drawn to do.
 
As I said, that doesn't mean that in every situation one's "inclinations" are going to be clearly displayed in some sort of routine, blatant form - there are always mitigating circumstances in life - but there is usually a core consistency, regardless of any outward seeming contradiction. A powerful man may only seem powerful, because he surrounds himself with power, and convinces himself and others that external power devices are who he is… but take away all those externals or confront him with someone who doesn't careabout them, and we see the true person (better yet, shatter his world and see where things fall then). For many, power is only something perceived due to status, wealth, position, etc. But these things don't make someone a dominant personality, they just create external advantages that can impact one's rank and resulting control. The core consistency is seen in how the person approaches given situations devoid of external advantages… and sexually, it's seen in what turns him on the most, if he is brave enough to admit it.
 
In this way… one's sexuality is actually a very telling factor when it comes to seeing inside of the person and inside of his true personality (in terms of sexual roles, this is more true of submission than domination - it takes more for someone to admit they are a submissive, and the choice of such a role, even by an outwardly seeming powerful individual, is usually indicative of an underlying tendency towards submission… while with dominance, it's not uncommon for people to aspire to be more than they are, as I pointed out earlier). Responsibility can be thrust upon us by events beyond our control - a "follower" personality can be very intelligent and successful… a wealthy man can inherit from a strong family or be propped up by the business empire that supports him. But our sexuality is our own… and the sexual impulses we have are things deep inside of us that while we may deny or leave unfulfilled, are true parts of us… and reflections of who we really are.
 
For those who admit their desires, giving up control sexually can be a welcome and sought after change from the responsibility they face daily… something liberating and exciting, but even more, if there is a contradiction of roles - between their sexual appetites and their daily routine - the idea of it being so different from what others publicly perceive them to be like, digs into the excitement found in masochism that comes with the thought of shameful secrets.

Domina Amanda

Female Domination Phone Sex - 1-800-356-6169
 

Continued in Part XXVI - Male Sex Slave

"Your training has only begun… you have much more to learn…

The path of the slave begins with submission… but leads to absolute devotion…

It is there that you will find your true place…

At the feet of the woman who claims you as her property - Female Domination"