"The natural compliment to female domination, is male submission…

And the natural compliment to female superiority, is obviously male inferiority…

or perhaps more simply put…

The existence of the dominatrix, results in the male's proper place as slave - Female Domination"

I like fear… especially the feeling of power it gives me. I like seeing the fearful apprehension in the eyes of a captive bound helpless before me… the way their body shakes when I approach… the shift in their breathing when I first touch them… the look on their face when I show them the whip in my hand… how their body recoils when it first strikes their flesh… the obvious arousal they receive as a result of it, even as they bite their gag and gasp/scream. I can't begin to describe how good it feels… how satisfying… how much I look forward to each opportunity. BDSM style foreplay to bondage sex ~grinz dreamy~.
 
I don't "need" this feeling to create a sense of importance or strength in myself, and it's not a necessity for me to get off sexually. I am quite normal… well, overall ~laughs~. I just admit that having control over another person in as absolute a way as possible both excites me and feels "right" to me. Female domination itself feels right to me. And I do take this to an extreme beyond most who otherwise just dabble - and oh how wonderful it does feel to go where others fear to tread ~grinz~.
 
But this enjoyment of control and want to have it, isn't an uncommon desire… many, if not most, feel it in some way, even those for who the condition of power and domination is merely an illusion or propped up facade. Look at day-to-day life and think of the difference between what it feels like giving the orders and having to take them. The workplace for example, I think everyone has at sometime wished they were "the boss" or "manager". "Being in charge" and "getting your way" is a common dream imagined to be wonderful, especially when we are confronted with all of the frustrations and doubts that are the reality of life. People feel like they have no control over their lives, and that if somehow they could gain control of what surrounds them, all would be right.
 
"Imagining" is a key point here… even though many may wish to be the boss, that doesn't mean most people are meant to be. Most aren't, which is why true leaders stand out so clear in "the crowd" - they make followers out of the wannabe leaders. Dreams usually don't include all of the responsibility and challenge that comes with leadership, and when faced with such in reality, most people cant handle these things as well as their fantasy selves would, or for that matter, end up enjoying the role near as much as they imagined they would. So yes… the desire for control is common… but not all can live up to it. They may imagine it to be "right" for them, but when the chance for it comes, it just isn't.
 
Now don't confuse what I'm saying here… I'm not trying to imply that most people are secretly sadists, or love to see submission and fear (though many do in some ways - seeing another submit can infuse feelings of power in another person, even if they don't really deserve them)… I'm only talking about control and the root desire to "be the boss" that many have. But connecting this to myself… not only do I personally enjoy being in control of others, I actually am one of those rare individuals who deserves to be, because like all leader types with strong personalities, I make followers out of those I come into contact with, and I am capable of retaining my position and handling the responsibility that comes with it.
 
The added difference with me is that I take this desire, and my natural dominant instinct to darker level. It's something I like to do, and something I can do when I wish it. Am I exploiting the strengths of my personality, the gifts nature has given me that put me above others… of course I am. To do less would be to waste of my potential ~smiles~. Female superiority is a blessing, why waste it.

Domina Amanda

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Continued in Part XXIV - Female Domination

"Strict orgasm denial by a hot ass demoness that will drive you insane…

Domina Amanda… cock tease and domination beyond anything you can handle - Tease and Denial"