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Many people see Degradation as being the same thing as humiliation (the male sexual form), but I like to think of it as being its own sub-fetish within the same fundamental category. Degradation seeks to attack someone's reputation, position, name, etc. What is dealt with here aren't simply insults, but specific damage to a person's identity and perceived status… not necessarily public in form but quite possible (and considering my love of exhibitionism, truly is quite possible ~laughs~). For example, in a way I particularly love - knocking someone down from their pedestal… forcing them to be the lowest, filthiest slave, making them serve in the most vile of ways, so that in their humiliation they are seen as the worthless garbage they really are (and sometimes feel themselves to be)… regardless of who and what they may "pretend" to be in their daily life. There are numerous people out there who deserve to have this happen to them… but there are also others who seek it out on their own.
There are many I have met who hold powerful jobs full of responsibility, who seek submission in their private lives. They find great relief through these femdom sessions - giving up the control that so dominates their day, for the simplicity of having no responsibility other than doing what they are told. But I have also found one's who seek true degradation as a further part of this, doing so almost as if they are performing some sort of penance for the heavy handed behaviors that are a part of their professional careers. Their stories are quite interesting - men who hold the livelihood of others in their hands, or whose success means the total failure of a competitor… and who hold feelings of guilt mixed with their achievements as a result. Submission, punishment and sexual humiliation, become a release for them that is not only enjoyed sexually, but they believe makes it easier for them to live their lives. Degradation can be femdom of a cathartic form.
And then there is Objectification, a fetish I particularly enjoy - taking a human being and slowly breaking them down into something not human… perhaps something of as little worth as possible or whose worth is found in something quite foreign to what we would commonly associate with a living, independent person. A thing that is viewed only as a simple object set to either do very limited or specific tasks, or absolutely nothing at all. Removal of identity and the systematic destruction of will to a point where that person ceases to be a person when with me… remaining only as something to be used in the most blunt definition of that word, with none of the consideration given to them that one would another human being. Objectification, in some ways, creates the most literal example of a "possession" possible, while still being alive. This takes a very focused form of domination and male humiliation, leading to potentially very intense femdom scenes when brought to fruition, because you have to limit your interaction with the "object" to just what fits them, in terms of conversation, direction and detachment from basic human emotion and sympathy. It takes a subject that must be developed into this form over time, because of the intensity involved both in how they are to act, and how they later on react to what they are doing and what is being done to them (especially if inclusive of public display).
I have a number of forced femdom stories I could tell of objectification that reflect this… for example, one with a forced feminization theme - I once had a slave boy I broke down into a near inanimate sex toy - beautifully pure objectification. When he was to be used I would dress him in thigh high boots, or stockings, garter-belt and high heels but always with a leather hood that covered his entire face, excepting mouth and nose. He would be led to whatever event by a leash… his lips painted red, his ass well greased, and his cock bound. He would then be put into position - be it simply on hands and knees, or bound on a horse, in stocks, etc. - and left there for the night for public use orally and anally, over and over, without expression, comment, or complaint. He would be whipped if he made a single sound, and denied my attentions for weeks on end for any noise.
I know forced feminization mixed with sexual use of this extreme shocks many, but I also know many of the same secretly are aroused by the idea ~laughs~. The feminization of this particular slave is still continuing, though I gave him to a shemale friend for further physical development. The last thing I had done to him was an augmentation of his lips, making them very full and perfect for cock sucking. "He" is still regularly used as an open sexual object at various private BDSM events. I am told the most he ass has serviced so far in a single night is 37 different cocks (majority shemale) and strapons, with 33 swallowed loads of cum. What a fucking whore ~laughs~.
More femdom stories of objectification - a friend of mine who used to train "artistic" human ashtrays. Example - one had a form of elaborate posture collar rigged into a latex straight jacket leading into full bodysuit. The slave could be made to sit or kneel with his head up, and then locked into place - face exposed but the rest of his head covered in tight latex locked by straps to the collar. Obviously his training in part was to build up tolerance for the positioning. When taken to a party, he would spend the night on public display collecting and swallowing the ashes and butts of guests. A slave like this must be made into an exhibitionist on top of being excited by objectification and masochism - a form of public humiliation more specifically defined.
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I love giving up control…something I have during my days at work and to submit fully to someone who can humiliate and use my lust for them against me. My fantasies come to life but are twisted to your desire and you use me in ways that put me into my place. The feeling of riding that cock while you talk about raping my ass with your strapon is overwhelming and pushed me well beyond what I thought were my boundaries.
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i have a lot of experience with this type of Domination/fetish and i can say without hyperbole that You have a deep understanding of the subbie and how to (essentially) destroy them and i bet that they thank You for it. Your insight is simply intoxicating.
I’ve never considering degradation or objectification as something I would want to do, though considering all you’ve written here about humiliation, I do see how that is an aspect in all forms of submissive play, even when the person is proud what they like. Society’s scorn is still there so humiliation plays a part no matter how confident the slave. What you say about degradation makes sense in how some people would want to do that as a sort of release. Very interesting how sex is more than just sex, and really does touch everything in our lives. Objectification I’ve never dreamed about but something about it in how you describe it does sound sexy. Not into being an ashtray but the though of a pure sex toy ignored for anything else but that, that sounds hot. More femdom stories about that would be greatly welcome
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