Archive for January 11th, 2008



 

"Strict tease and denial by a hot ass demoness who will drive you insane…

 A cock tease dominatrix who takes pleasure in seeing you suffer…

Am I a ruthless bitch? See what I do to you if you call me that, slave - Orgasm Denial"

 
 

I truly enjoy watching guys masturbate, but I don't perform for them so they can jerk off to me like I'm a stripper or something. What I do is take control of things, turning it into a form of female domination where I direct the action to fit my tastes. They play exactly the way I want them to - femdom orgasm control - a sex slave performing for my enjoyment. This way it's no longer what they are doing to themselves, but what I am doing to them. It becomes me using my mind and body to achieve sexual submission through their need… a mix of seductive tease and pure female domination, taking them to a point where they will blindly follow all that I say… begging my beauty and imagination for the orgasm I have built up inside of them. From here they become lost to this desperate, consuming need I tease and manipulate, riding to the edge repeatedly, only to yank them back just before they get what they so desire. And then, if I want to, I can take them head long into an overwhelming release that leaves them empty and shaking from an amazing orgasm, with just the thought of my name forever on being a source of arousal to them… or instead, since it often pleases me more, I can suddenly kick their hopes out from under them, building up such wonderful promise only to crush their expectations with an abrupt and absolute end of only extreme orgasm denial.
 
While some may be surprised at the thought of tease and denial somehow being seen as thrilling or sought after (the denial part that is), many men love the intensity of having their control taken from them so totally - the interaction is so heavily sexual to begin with for them, with their submission serving to heighten this all the more… add to it how the dominatrix isn't just directing their actions, but could crush the entire scene at a whim, and that submission is felt all the deeper. The chance of this negative possibility is exciting as it mixes doubt with domination, and with that the sexual impact becomes all the greater, even if the session ends in true orgasm denial. The mix of submission and male humiliation, is very powerful for those enjoying this sort of masochism. 
 
There are plenty of men who will sit there thinking how that all sounds so incredible to them… how I must be this truly amazing cock tease that stalks the human male as if he were prey (and they are damn right, that is what I am, and that is what you are to me), but they make the mistake of thinking that somehow this is all about their wants and their fulfillment, as if that were the focus of all I described. They dream of some nasty, hot game of tease and denial where I push them to their limits, but since it's their dream, they get all they want from me in the end, the denial part forgotten for guided masturbation that fits their fantasy. If that were true I wouldn't be such a ruthless cock tease, I'd be a gentle, sensuous mastubation "helper" or something ~laughs~. Men who think this way are not even close to reality. Any enjoyment they get from what I do to them, is incidental ~laughs~. The decisions are entirely mine, and thus what I decide is based upon what I want, and what I will enjoy. Sure, I sometimes like allowing that orgasm to happen, but when I do it, the real reason isn't a sudden dose of "nice" going through me that makes me want to see the guy happy. No. It's just another step in my growing domination of that man, with the orgasm being another tool in the process. After all, it's called orgasm control for a reason… much the same way the words tease and denial describe our play. It's not "tease and get what you want"… it's only about what I want.
 
When his cock is hard, even the boldest of men will show signs of weakness before the woman that is the focus of his desire… and the strong, dominant woman… the one who is intelligent enough to understand the power of her body and her sex… can easily turn those signs of weakness into a means of pure control - after all, cock control is man control, and tease and denial, in all its varied, related forms, is a fundamental route to female domination. Once a woman has the slightest hold on a man’s balls, she has made a great step forward in her complete ownership of him. With the right manipulation any man can be guided to give a woman whatever she pleases - her well played tease and denial - not just in the bedroom, but all situations (since sexuality and the domination dynamic can be injected into anything), winning his obedience and submission. And if done right over time, even the boldest of men will happily fall in line beside his new found queen.
 
Dragging this manipulation out over days or weeks… just heightens my level of control and his degree of vulnerability. Desperation and helplessness takes greater hold with each passing day, made worse with each taunting moment of contact we have, and each playful, mocking denial… touches of male humiliation, of course masterfully mixed with seductive hints of future fulfillment if only he do a little more, and wait a little longer. That desperate feeling isn't just the want to have an orgasm… its my leather gloved, dominating fist closing tight over his sexuality, making it ever more strikingly clear that his decisions are now worthless trash, and mine are absolute - the difference between misery and pleasure… torment and release… is me.
 
I freely admit I am an egotistical person, and a man masturbating to the thought of me, doing it to my exact command, is an amazing ego rush (the same holds true of women playing with themselves - I love watching a breathless young girl lie down before me, spreading her already wet pussy, offering it up to be done with as I desire… orgasm denial is just as hot when done to a girl who is squirming with need. Especially the really innocent, naive ones - tease and denial with them, I so fucking love it… watching them get hotter and wetter, seeing the shame spread across their faces as they let their need control them almost as much as I am. Watching them beg and raise their pussies up to me, pleading to cum as I tease their clits. Then afterwards, just sitting there quiet, smiling at their embarassment as the after effect of their submission washes over them… god, that is hot). It's a display of worship I can demand or deny as I please… one I can allow him to fully enjoy, or ruin as fits my mood and my opinion of him. Even men with twisted perversions can be worthwhile in this regard, because not only is the ego stroke still there, but they also provide this extra level of amusement through how absurd they are. The sick stuff people come up with and get themselves into when their blood is pumping is hilarious. And then the look on their faces just after they are done… the resulting male sexual humiliation that floods over them… the sound of silence or the shift in tone that enters their voices when they‘ve finished… that "oh my god did I really do that" embarrassment is so fucking great. Yes… yes, sunshine, you did really do that… and the next time your cock gets all raging and you just have to let yourself go, we both know you‘re going to do it again… so don't bother trying to deny it. I've heard some speak of the feelings of self-loathing they experience after giving in to certain desires that they have… when I am there to witness their male humiliation…
 
I… eat… that… shit… up… ~grinz very evil~.

 

Domina Amanda

Orgasm Denial Phone Sex 1-800-356-6169
 

Continued in Part XVIII - Female Domination

 

 

"A dark seductress of cock tease and orgasm control…

A truly evil love of teasing, male humiliation and cock and balls domination…

Don't worry… I won't be gentle… not at all, and I won't stop - Tease and Denial"

 

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