"BDSM provides many options for an interesting femdom session…

I like bondage… the whip… and a thick strapon - Female Domination Sex"

At the basic level, my true punishments are less of a corporal form than that of extreme orgasm denial and a harsh, absolute silence. Rejection, dismissal and absence have very powerful effects on any slave, far more so than a whip which still involves interaction (and to some degree may be enjoyed by the punished). What's worse - my intent from the start is always to learn what it is that affects my subject deeply, both in terms of wants and fears… and once I know these things, I manipulate them in degrees to mold the slave's behavior into what I please. One doesn't need to use the extremes of what someone fears, or even hint directly at them to let this knowledge have its effect… once you know what is inside of someone there are many ways to touch on related concepts that will also have their impact on that person's psyche to the degree you wish. From that point the control that rests at your fingertips only grows stronger and more effective… often almost effortlessly so.
 
When it does come to corporal punishments, and for that matter all forms of sadism and masochism related to femdom BDSM play, I am well versed in the use and effect of a wide variety of methods, devices, and techniques. One of my favorites is the braided single tail whip. I prefer a 5-6 foot length but will use a 4 foot if space is somewhat limited. I can crack the shorter of these very easily, and have little difficulty doing so with the longer ones, again assuming space permits. These aren't things I have toyed with as some sort of BDSM hobby, I have spent quite a bit of time training with them over the years, both practicing and actively using, and I have experience enough to not only use them effectively and safely, but to instruct others in their care and proper employment. My use of them is primarily for sexual enjoyment - mine that is ~laughs~, but that of the subject also (I do enjoy seeing the pain wash over their slave bodies in a rush of sensation while they float in an endorphin and opioid fueled daze ~grinz~)… but when used for true punishment I make sure to disturb the potentially pleasurable progression/rhythm to ruin the masochistic high one might enjoy. Whips are a wonderful friend to me. I love the feel of them… their look and nature… the reaction others have to the sight of them… and I especially enjoy wearing/holding them as the perfect accessory for choice fetish outfits.
 
Overall, I don't have an oppressively serious manner in how I carry myself, and I am also not the type to just go about haphazardly throwing bitch-tantrums (I don't see this as a necessary part of female domination or the character of a dominatrix). While I take the right things seriously, I never take them too seriously - I am well able to balance responsible and efficient with charming and approachable. I am quite calculating in my actions, with specific intentions behind whatever I do… but how I do things is always seeded in my want to enjoy myself. I have a nasty, sarcastic wit that I love to indulge, which when coupled with my natural desire to show off my malevolent yet sinfully playful smile, gives a devilishly dark twist to my bearing that I know is irresistible to men and women both… if more than a tad intimidating and disconcerting. I don't need to yell or threaten to get the results I want… I let the force of just my presence alone impose my will… that and the dark smile that lights up my eyes.
 

Domina Amanda

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Continued in Part XIV - Dominatrix

"I think one of the biggest mistakes men make…

is that they truly think the female is the gentle, merciful sex

Truth is, deep down in every woman is a well of sadism and cruelty…

Femdom gives a vent for what comes natural to the female - Extreme BDSM"