"Bondage is a natural addition to sexual submission…

When tied up tight the slave is open and vulnerable to whatever you desire…

Sexual humiliation, domination and the obvious - Tease and Denial"

My Personal Reflections Part VIII - By: Domina Amanda
 
My sexual tastes and natural domination are not a reflection of any aversion to men or anger towards them, it's just that I know where I fit in the world, and where they do in relation to me - subject to my whim and will. Female domination doesn't preclude the possibility of having male friends, and acquaintances - I have many that I value (realistically, anyone who would go around trying to claim they don't could only be labeled a phony, or they would have to exist within a ridiculously constrained environment, one intentionally designed to sustain whatever "man-hater" nonsense of an identity they desired. My eyes roll when I see that garbage attempted by others because it comes off so fucking contrived and reeks of a character being played - someone trying hard to prove some image they want for themselves. I can't be bothered with that fake dominatrix scene bullshit, and I have no reason not to be proud of all the friends I have, whatever is or is not between their legs), it's just that in sexual situations and the relationships surrounding them, men are very submissive to me, and all such interaction I have with them clearly fits this condition. Even when I have grown fond of one of my boys, this fondness has never crossed into anything that contradicted my personality, nor has that possibility even been contemplated.
 
In my day to day life, I obviously don't demand this same degree or form of submission from every man I come into contact with (unless I want it ~winks~) - such isn't realistic, but I also don't seek to create an atmosphere of possible conflict where such is not necessary. My presence and personality are normally met with great respect and courtesy - it's what I naturally invoke in people and expect. When I do want deference, I can easily have it. If the behavior of others is not to my satisfaction, then conflict of some sort does occur since I have little tolerance for rude people or disagreeable environments. But I don't have issues or problems with men, and there is no feeling of hostility in me towards them… that is, unless provoked (and for that matter, when the provocation is obviously done intentionally, I don't get baited into playing childish games with little boys seeking some sort of femdom fix… odd how usually these types all love small penis humiliation, even those who won't admit it… I wonder why).
 
I am quite secure in who I am, especially in terms of my sexuality, and while some in society like to live in stereotypes and declare I must be somehow deluding myself if I don't want to be second to some man… I know what is right for me, and I know it in a way that feels so matter-of-fact natural that I have found nothing to make me doubt it, instead only things serving to reinforce. This has resulted in me having great confidence in how I carry myself. I don't have the need to prove anything to anyone… and I don't need to bark at or bitch those around me to feel that I am the strong woman that I already know I am, nor do I need expressions like "female domination" to reinforce what I already know is true. While I admit I can at times be difficult to get along with, particularly if I come into conflict with another strong personality, or one pretending to be so, I don't go around treating people like crap just because I know I can or because I want others to see me do it. If I knock some moron around, I have good reason to I want to, or the idiot simply deserves it… but I don't do it because I have an image to uphold or need the recognition of others. When people play that game you know they are full of shit.
 
I have always been bisexual and am highly attracted to women (I have a thing for petite girls with innocent faces but I am not at all limited to just there ~laughs~). I have many lesbian friends in the BDSM scene, in fact most of my closest. My sexual tastes with girls though, aren't that much different than how I am towards men. I dominate them just as heavily in and out of the bedroom, though not necessarily in the same ways. Sometimes I actually think I get a little more savage with women than I do men. I like girls' screams more than that of most boys, not that hearing a guy cry out isn't wonderful, it's just that women have a more lovely mix of sounds and expressions… and seeing a girl's face run with tears while her wet pussy soaks her legs makes me so fucking hot I can't put it to words.
 
With men, it's the contradiction of society's expected sexual roles that I especially love… so my femdom activities with them tend to include sexual humiliation to a greater degree than with girls, and I am far less forgiving with men (not that I don't love degrading a female slave - its fucking hot seeing a girl made into a total sex slut… it's just that men deserve humiliation all the more… and bodily, they are rigged for a very nice fetish option that I do so enjoy - small penis humiliation ~grinz~). Girl's I allow more freedoms when it comes to touching my body… this isn't strictly because I find them more beautiful than men, it's also because the female is above the male, and while a girl can be a slave to a dominatrix like me, even if she is made into the lowest of slaves, she cannot be lower than a man. So it isn't fitting for something as low as a male to have the same sort of privileges as a female.
 
In terms of bondage sex… my view of the sexes opens up a nice little tease and denial game I like to play… a wonderful exercise in both female domination, and the graphic demonstration of female superiority and male inferiority. An excellent way to tease a man is by letting him see a submissive, collared female's mouth touch parts of me he will probably never be that near to. That desperate longing that fills his eyes is fantastic, and I let it easily run over into humiliation by allowing the girl to mock the guy as she eats. You've never been truly teased by a woman until you've been chained to a wall while she is being eaten out by a naked girl on a leash. I usually position the girl so her bare ass and wet pussy are very nicely in view too. Icing on the cake in this tease an denial is to have the slave girl lie there in front of him when I am done, her legs spread open, fucking herself to orgasm while all he can do is stare and moan with his small penis twitching all alone ~laughs~. A blindfold in this case can sometimes be merciful, but often ends up just making it all the worse.

Domina Amanda

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Continued in Part IX - Female Domination

"Soft domination is a bore… and I'm not in a tease and denial mood…

what you have down there isn't enough material to work with.

This is obviously going to be a rather 'short' femdom session - Small Penis Humiliation"