"Being with me is far better than any BDSM stories I could tell…

so stop your dreaming about cute little femdom scenes…

the thick black strapon I'm wearing right now is real…

just like the ass fuck I'm going to give you when you call - Bondage Sex"

My Personal Reflections Part VII - By: Domina Amanda
 
I think this is obvious by now, but I will state it anyway… I am not a switch, and most certainly not a submissive. Like I've said, I don't have normal, "vanilla" sex with men or really anything of a related nature that could be considered conventional or commonplace. I am very much attracted to guys, but I take pleasure in them on my terms, and any sort of sexual contact between myself and a man is always one of me in the dominant role, usually strikingly so - from common to very heavy femdom scenes, and if intercourse occurs, it's always bondage sex.
 
What I do or allow with a male really depends on what I see in him and what he has grown to become in my eyes. BDSM options are many when it comes to how I enjoy using a man. In terms of direct contact, there are rare moments where I may allow some facesitting with a very obedient boy, lowering my beautiful ass onto his face to allow him to perform that greatest of rewards - ass worship. My ass is a great attraction to both sexes and I love to show it off… but I also love to have it eaten, so my slave girls are all heavily trained to excellence in this fetish, with facesitting and ass worship being daily acts they perform on me. Male slaves are sometimes tortured by being held in bondage and made to watch, without any relief… but occassionally, like I said, I do allow one the ultimate chance to taste his dominatrix. Facesitting with men though, turns usually into smothering as I like to abuse them ~laughs~. And it's a good workout for my ass anyway.
 
But the only times I have ever had a male penis inside of me is when the guy has either been tied up, or of a level of obedience that is beautifully absolute - domination and bondage sex of one form or another. So whatever the case, it has always been me who is in total control of the fucking. Never otherwise.
 
The more common sexual practices also take a very untraditional turn with me. For example, I have a very strong strapon fetish, and I love to wear and use such on both sexes, in all orifices. I often fuck men with them, grinding down hard when I am deep in their asses, getting myself easily off that way - a favorite way for me to have an orgasm. So while the "act" is much the same - that of the giving and receiving ends of penetration - the roles are completely reversed. Femdom strapon sessions are very common for me, as I am known to be particularly skilled and aroused by that fetish, besides just enjoying the feel of being in a strapon harness regardless.
 
With oral sex, I don't perform such on men, but I do enjoy using a slave's mouth to bring a man to orgasm - me in control of the slave's actions, using her/him as my tool to torture and tease. This is something I have had done not just to male slaves (them on the receiving end in this case, with the mouth of another slave being my living sex toy), but I have also used slaves to service men who are friends, guests, or of interest at the moment (I have some great femdom stories to tell on this subject… and will ~laughs~). I don't mean just female slaves doing the cock sucking… but I also mean forced bi training for male slaves. Sometimes I simply order the slave to obey this other person, knowing they will perform to the level I would expect, but more often I like to be involved in the way I earlier described, though with friends or guests my teasing doesn't usually have quite so vicious an edge to it.
 
When making assumptions about what a woman's earliest sexual encounters are supposed to be like, some may find what I have so far said about this to be a little surprising, or even unbelievable. People think the female is supposed to be timid when she first has sex, and that domination must be something she is under… but my case is different. I mentioned before that I have always been in a dominant role, right from the start, and that I have never had sex with a man in the traditional, "vanilla" way… I wasn't joking. First of all, my earliest sex wasn't with boys, it was with girls and they were deferential or downright submissive towards me. I was the leader of my circle of friends and I went through them all, sampling them sexually, making the entire group bi in the process, if not full out lesbian ~laughs~ (when I first started out there was a particular girl I met up with… a very petite girl who was roughly my age at the time. She was experimenting greatly with her sexuality then, and like myself, was already beginning to understand just where she belonged in the grand scheme of things. In her case though, that answer was submission, and we made a very good pair as a result, not only enjoying each other, but also learning more about ourselves through it. While I still had sex with others, she and I stayed close a long time, and my domination of her grew greater with the passing months, as did our experience with bondage and BDSM in general. She took a strapon so damn well… her ass was virgin when we met but that didn't last long ~grinz~).
 
The first time I was with a boy it was only because I wanted to see what that was like, so I chose one under the condition that he be tied down or it wasn't going to happen. Men usually agree to anything when an opportunity that possesses a hot young body presents itself, and so from the very start, with both sexes, I was where I belonged - in charge. I should add that I have since been with women on more equal terms, in particular ones sharing a similar outlook on life that I do, but that has never crossed into a submissive role being assumed by me… and when it comes to anything with a cock ~laughs~, it's never really been anything even close to equal - the male is a slave or in a submissive position… bondage sex with a clear femdom theme.
 

"I don't want your cock today… I'm wearing my own…

I'm going to thoroughly show you what female domination really is like…

No cute dominatrix crap… the only crap here is getting packed inside you - Femdom Strapon"

Something more about the first time I had sex with a boy, since some have asked to hear more details and I like telling my personal femdom stories ~laughs~. He was a bit older than me, and agreed to my conditions of being tied up (bit of a perv considering the age difference). I had penetrated myself with a dildo before and enjoyed strapon play with girlfriends (the first time I did was with an early girlfriend - I climbed on her, took the strapon inside me, sitting back on it… and then I started to push down to get it in as far in as I could… without thinking about it, my hands moved to her wrists and I held them to the sides of her head that way as I rode her, pinning her down… I rode her hard, unthinking, just thrusting back on her and holding her still like that. It was her first experience in domination sex, and she got into me taking control that way. Next time we had sex she was kind of shy, not asking me to outright, but laying down and putting her hands over her head to clearly show me what she wanted… I smiled down and did as I already planned to ~laughs~. We introduced bondage later since that was the obvious way to go next, and some other BDSM elements to foreplay, but she always liked me holding her down most of all which I also liked with her) so I was already "open" and penetration wasn't uncomfortable for me. I had him down on his back with his wrists tied tight behind him. On a whim I tied his ankles together too and then ran a cord from his heck to the bedpost. That last part he didn't go for at first, but when my hand began to stroke his cock he shut up fast ~laughs~ and I think the slap to his face had its effect too.
 
I'm not going to get into fine details… all I'll say is that when it comes to sex of any form, domination, bondage, boring vanilla, whatever, while a strapon feels good, the male penis usually does feel better since it's "real". What I want to note is that after I had an orgasm, I stopped before he had his. I of course wouldn't let him cum inside of me and nearly didn't let him at all. I got off of him and proceeded play in such a nasty way with his cock, working him up and then stopping just before he was supposed to release. I kept messing with him like that for a long while, sometimes laughing, sometimes just looking at him with that twisted grin I have, pushing him to the edge of orgasm then letting go and watching his reaction. It was like lab experiment sex ~laughs~. It was only after he admitted my domination of him was total, and begged my mercy, that I finally let him cum… and then it was really only because I wanted to see what that looked like. Not only my first bondage sex with a man, but my first forced femdom session with a "male sex slave" ~laughs~.

Domina Amanda

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Continued in Part VIII - Bi-Dominatrix

"Don't deny it… I'm not in the mood for your stories and excuses…

The thought of a cock in your mouth makes your dick hard, you forced bi slut…

And when you dream of face fucking it to orgasm… filling your mouth with cum… 

you wish you could swallow down all of that hot load - Forced Bi Phone Sex"