"Female domination isn't just about bondage, and discipline…

Man, with small mind and smaller cock, thinks of only sex and orgasm…

The female, especially the dominatrix… is all about control and power - Female Superiority"

My Personal Reflections Part VI - By: Domina Amanda
 
Speaking more about sex and with it, female domination… I've already made it clear that my personal interests run more towards the extreme or out of the ordinary - not at all what is commonly termed "vanilla". I can honestly say that I've never really had sex fully in the "vanilla" way - even at the very beginning I assumed an actively dominant position, and degrees of bondage and discipline were present… hence my sexual encouters are more accurately termed bondage sex or female domination sex, with me obviously doing the dominating ~smiles~. The simplistic sexual practices of most "ordinary" people bore me and always have. No offense to the mundane, but I like more of an intensity to exist in what I do… be it an element of calculated danger and intended fear, or subtle forms of mental control where the intensity is built up through very focused domination and manipulative teasing. I enjoy toying with people… messing with how they work to take possession of them in an all consuming way. Domination of a man or woman who is tied up and helpless in front of you is truly intoxicating - an explosive rush of strong sensations that can be indulged as beautifully or horribly as you desire… but slowly taking control of another human being from way down inside of them, often proves a more deeply satisfying and lasting experience, one that brings a continual sense of power and euphoria, particularly if coupled with the inevitable sexual act.
 
There are so many different ways to enjoy what I am talking about… and so many diverse situations within which these ways can be uniquely applied. Most of these aren’t even of an overtly sexual nature, at least not in the way most usually think such to mean. For many, sexual activity revolves almost totally around the act of intercourse itself, and its direct prelude. BDSM expands the possibilities for what falls under this idea greatly…and more specifically, acts of dominance and submission push things even further since these exchanges can be very sexual in nature without having necessarily anything to do with the sexual act. I'm not even referring to just commonly engaged activities that fall under the femdom heading like consensual slavery, chastity, objectification, or general servitude. The exchange of power which is the core of what I mean, can happen anywhere, in any scenario… all that is required is the submission of one individual to the will of another in response to whatever interaction is occurring.
 
As both lifestyle dominant female and professional dominatrix I can tell you that these commonplace exchanges are some of the most exhilarating - when you literally step into a situation and proceed to have whatever way you want with it. Be it just your presence being stronger than those that surround you, resulting in you quickly being treated with an observably greater degree of deference and courtesy… or you intentionally seeking conflict the instant you enter a situation, so as to impose your will on those present, and then assume either a passive or active form of authority as pleases you… whatever the case may be, dominant personalities thrive on dominating others, and in its way, this can be an even more satisfying experience than traditional, or even untraditional, sexual intercourse and its surrounding exertions (Naturally, intercourse of any sort has a dominance/submission element to it which can be greatly underlined by those involved if they so choose… but here I am specifically referring to situations not of the commonly defined sexual type). Personally, I don't think I can really explain to someone who doesn't understand, just how "right" this feels, and with that, the strong feeling of fulfillment that comes with it.
 
But when it comes to actual sexual intercourse, beyond any other BDSM activities possibly involved… as I said earlier, female domination sex or bondage sex best describes what I enjoy. This holds for both straight and lesbian, though I don't always tie women up. With men, bondage is almost always is involved, since I like the way men look when they are helpless in chains or well tied with rope… and because for many men, the idea of not only being slave to a woman, but the bound captive of one adds a greater degree of excitment, feeding their underlying masochism - I can see it in their eyes and I like it. Whether I'm using a strapon or taking them inside of me - either way they are the ones being fucked and I am the one using them to get off. Bondage in this way isn't done because I need it to secure their submission… it's done because I like the look of it, the impact it has on them emotionally and sexually, and it makes them even more into an object rather than human. Girls I enjoy binding too… but I also I like to physically overpower them, holding them down to be used… sometimes I claw and abuse as they struggle and cry, marking them with my teeth and nails… and other times I hold them more gently and slowly devour, taking them deeply and fully.

Domina Amanda

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Continued in Part VII - Bondage Sex

"You want to explore BDSM… and I have so many wonderful things to show you…

your cock shows such longing for female domination… but your eyes reflect fear…

Oh, don't worry about this whip… you'll learn to love it… to beg for it's touch…

and I don't intend to limit the affection it has for you - Bondage Sex"