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My Personal Reflections Part V - By: Domina Amanda
I won't say anything more about how I originally got into BDSM. I admit I was too young and thus it isn't something to talk about. I make no apologies for my actions, and don't feel any remotely necessary. My first experiences were in the dominant role, I enjoyed them, and to me that is all that matters. Female domination was what felt natural to me and I never really had any desire to try otherwise… in fact, my impulses were so strong in this regard that I was literally pulled in that direction. I didn't decide to be a strong young woman, its what I was and where I was headed regardless. I've never bothered much with declaring myself a dominant female, lifestyle dominatrix, femdom domina, and all that, at least not in terms of some sort of shallow, repeated identification… I usually just let the blatantly obvious speak for itself, excepting where such titles are necessary/expected (like here ~laughs~, and I obviously expect the deferential use of these expressions by those conversing with me in appropriate settings). I've also found that in life, people naturally fall in line behind those who are meant to lead, and so no declarations are really necessary in most cases… nature imposes its own order as it see fit, regardless of what aspirations any may have. Female superiority is something that simply "is", not something that has to be proven, and male submission is the natural reaction to it. The same holds true for the individual dominant female in relation to her world - she simply "is".
I originally got involved in the professional BDSM scene in New York City as an apprentice to an older, well established dominatrix. Her and I had become friends prior to this and she desired a companion that she could share her knowledge with, one whose company she could truly enjoy. She isn't one of those "basement mistresses" that you so often find online - the type that has a "dungeon" below her house (wedged between the laundry room and the garage), "fully complete" with a couple of floggers, an odd number of clothespins, a strapon, the ubiquitous wooden spoon, and no true training. She's worked in many different professional female domination facilities internationally, and done some fetish modeling and BDSM themed writing. At the time I worked for her, she and a close friend of hers were running their own exclusive dungeon in Manhattan… a private, two level affair with three well stocked rooms, along with an oubliette, office and leather lounge, suited to many styles of femdom session.
It was there, under her influence, that I took my own sexual propensities, and further expanded and refined them into the basis of what I am today. I stayed with her in that capacity for longer than I had to, simply because I enjoyed both my time there and my time with her. I was never submissive to her, nor did she ever encourage me to be, or even ask to play with me in that way (contrary to the confused opinion "players" have about one needing to be a "bottom" before they can be a "top")… that isn't who I am and she not only accepted that, but was glad for the type of company I gave her as a result. We were good friends and still are - when you are surrounded by submissives its good to have someone you can talk to on your own level. She is a lesbian and we did fuck each other often at that time - I phrase it that way on purpose - bluntly - because she was a very intense sexual partner, one that well fit my own predilections when having actual intercourse. But it is more important to me to say that she is one of the very few I have met in life who I consider to be an "equal", and that is much due to my continued respect and admiration for her.
Domina Amanda
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Continued in Part VI - Domination Sex
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I love the video clip on teh guy getting kicke din the ball it makes laugh everytime.
Domina - I really cant get over how good your blog is. The depth and level of detail to your writings is amazing, not to mention the quality. Most phone sex blogs are just the same simple stuff over and over. Yours reads like a true blog should, a real person’s thoughts being shared with other people. Most sites people just visit to look for pics or audios. THis one I actually come to read and look forward to seeing new posts appear. Thank you for the time you take to do this. -Billy
Jenny - ~grinz~ that never gets tiring… just like it doesn’t in real life
Billy - Thank you, and I am glad you enjoy it. Whatever I do I see as both a reflection of myself, and a reflection on myself. As a result I don’t like to do things half-assed, because that is not the person I am, nor the person I want to be perceived to be. You are right, this is a real person’s thoughts. What is here really is me… what I do, what I’ve done, what I like, and how I think… and as this blog grows, the truth of that will only become more obvious. There is much more to come ~smiles~
Its shows, Domina. Its very impressive and very intersting and I look forward to your next efforts. Your audios are excellent too. So much to enjoy
PS - thanks for all the pics youve added since.