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My Personal Reflections Part IV - By: Domina Amanda
 
Now as I just indicated, BDSM is something I have been involved with for close to half my life, and when I speak in sexual terms of things "adventurous", it would be correct to assume that this is primarily what I mean. BDSM is a very broad expression, and I cannot claim to embrace and enjoy all it entails (and I know I would never want to ~laughs~). But it is within this collective of kinks and erotic preferences that we find the alternative forms of sex that I earlier spoke of as being an addiction/compulsion of mine. I phrase it that way because I greatly enjoy my sexuality, and explore it on a level far beyond the norm. Not just in terms of specific acts engaged in or their frequency, but also the amount of introspection I have done, the thoughts and guidance I have shared with others on the subject, and most importantly, the tremendous degree to which my sexuality and its particular form permeate my entire life, being the cornerstone of my lifestyle and often the source of my livelihood. But I don't want my word choices misunderstood as meaning I lack some sort of control in the face of these urges… that would be pretty impossible considering how these urges manifest themselves for me as it is - "domination sex" and femdom play can't be that if the female in the dominant position isn't truly in control, particularly of her self. My sexual preferences and overall sexuality are just a very strong motivating and defining force in my life that I choose not to unreasonably restrict, or allow to be imposed upon by outside forces. Such is central point of anyone's life, particularly a healthy one, and this being true, I seek to fulfill and understand it in every way I desire, as often as I can.
 
For close to ten years now that is exactly what I have been doing, and in the decade that has passed since I first began experimenting with pieces of what falls under BDSM's umbrella, I have not only developed great experience in facets of that broad subject, but I've literally grown up with it. My earliest relationships all included degrees of domination and bondage - sex to me has always been focused on these things with me in the control position, and the person I am having sex with being put in a position of submission, often inclusive of bondage, and at times even being made into something of a sexual object strictly to be used as that and nothing more. My first real job was in the professional female domination scene as a dominatrix, so even my earliest employment independence is rooted in BDSM. Since then my employment has often been BDSM related and the overall subject is a constant, major part of my life. Its influence on me has undoubtedly been profound, touching not just my sexuality, but my personal philosophy and general outlook. I can't see myself being as happy as I am without having stepped into this world, and while I can't say that everything I have found in my travels has been worth repeating, I can say that the trip has been well worth it.
 
Some may think 25 to be a little young to be as deeply involved with BDSM as I am, but I started out far earlier than most would expect… in fact, far earlier than most people would think right ("domination", as instinct and drive, doesn't just start when society dictates, its what you are and is always there). My inclinations began to make themselves known to me very early, and when I grew into my sexuality, opportunity soon presented itself and I chose to let those inclinations take form in fitting ways. From there it didn't take me long to sort out the basics of what it is that I like, and for that matter, the foundations of who I am in terms of personality, direction, and place. Luckily, I accepted these things quickly and didn't get lost to doubts or the wants of others. I've since made it a point to be true to what I have found and from there indulge my interests in an ever greater amount of ways.

 
Domina Amanda

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Continued in Part V - Female Domination

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